This argument that people who don't agree with you are simply old and out of touch is a powerful one because it's always been applied to women who don't comply. It plays on the threat that all women feel of becoming invisible and irrelevant as they age in a patriarchy.
Under this same system, Eddie can change shoes and be in 'girl mode' when it suits his political career and male when he doesn't want to lose acting work because he's not actually a 'girl' after all, he's a post menopausal woman and there aren't many good roles for them.
Women who object to the idea that womanhood is a costume you can take on or put off, a set of stereotypes like lipstick and heels, are very much part of the 21st century. They're not out of touch, although they may have the wisdom that several decades of being female brings.
All I see when Eddie speaks is misogyny which reserves a special category of disrespect for older women. I accept him however he chooses to dress or whatever he wishes to call himself. But I won't lie and say he's a woman. #istandwithrosieduffield
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The 'Family Sex Show' currently in the news was 'crafted in partnership with The School of Sexuality Education.' When I was writing My Period, they were put forward as 'sensitivity readers'. I went to their website, read this article, & firmly refused. schoolofsexed.org/blog-articles/…?
You'll have to read it to believe it, but it contains such choice quotes as: "Psychological and scientific academia has widely proved that gender, and sex, are socially constructed...Even the link we’ve made between penis and male sex (and vagina and female sex) is constructed"
It also describes surgery to remove the penis and construct a vagina as a 'really cool medical procedure'. Remember this website is for teens. Overall the piece is full of inaccurate and misleading statements on everything from basic biology to women's sport.
Such a typical pattern of behaviour. 🧵 1. Pick a successful woman 2. Accuse her of transphobia so that her entire career as she knew it is in jeopardy. 3. Watch her sinking with relish, knowing if she speaks about it she could further damage herself. bbc.co.uk/news/entertain…
4. She decides to risk it and tell her story anyway. Life as she knew it is f***ed, so why not. 5. Her story does not get the reaction the bullies hoped - she is supported. 6. They then claim her telling her story has made them 'unsafe'.
7. They accuse her of abusing her 'power' and her 'platform' (that one that she worked years for) and potentially damaging THEM (their organisation or their careers etc). 8. They say, 'you haven't been cancelled, you are speaking in all the major news outlets'.
Women are born with all the eggs they will ever have. If you are female you had all your eggs when you were in your mother's uterus. And she had all her eggs when inside her mother's uterus. Yes, this means the egg that went on to be you was once inside your gran.
The other interesting thing about eggs is that they are 'competitive'. We often hear the story about the 'winning' sperm, beating all the other sperm and arriving, victorious, at the oh-so-passive egg. But that's not quite how it works...
In fact, each month, some of the eggs in a woman's ovaries start to get bigger and stronger, ready to be released. The biggest and strongest egg is released and travels down the fallopian tube, where a sperm, if there is one can fertilise it.
Just had a post about the BBC article on the 'cotton ceiling' removed by Instagram for 'hate speech'. Here is the post duplicated on my FB. Judge for yourself if it's 'hateful' 🙄 facebook.com/10006358159338…
This is the post they removed.
@BBCNews this was a post about your article removed for hate speech?
A lot of people want to support me, but feel like my books might not be for them because they are not pregnant? Well - Give Birth like a Feminist is absolutely for any person interested in feminism and women's rights, and it's 99p on kindle this month! amazon.co.uk/Give-Birth-Lik…
Here's the chapter headings...
Around 1 in 3 women experience birth trauma, and many more come to the other side of having a baby feeling shocked, sad, broken or upset. They often feel that their female bodies let them down, but this is victim blaming. It's the system that lets them down.
I've got lots to say, but I need some time to process the events of this week. For now though, I do want to make one point. My blog called for 'dialogue not division'. In particular, I wanted to raise the issue of what happens to 'dissenters' such as myself. Short thread...
Maybe it wasn't implicitly clear in my blog, but the people who piled on to me online were not (as far as I know) trans. They were largely doulas, hypnobirthing teachers and midwives. There's a massive problem in the birth world with all of this which is being swept under the rug
By making an example of me (a person well known in the birth world) a powerful message was sent to others to shut up or else. So this is the point I wished to raise - that we need to address this climate of silencing people and start actually properly discussing the issues.