Thread by @EL_Limitless

@oku_yungx
There are a plethora of reasons why men without kids should NEVER marry single mothers.

Men and women look for different things in each other. Women look for men that are capable of providing and protecting them and the family; men look for women who have

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youth (typically 18-26), purity, zero baggage, zero or very low body count. Women are born with value and so must preserve their value to be respected; men are born without value and so must create their value.

A man that's incapable of providing and protecting a woman

regardless of how pitiable his reasons sound, will be met with a lot of rejections. Ask yourself, if a man comes to marry your sister and gives the excuse that he used to be a millionaire but became lazy or was heavily scammed of his money (that's his primary value; provision

& protection) sometime ago & he's now broke, has no job, doesn't know if a job will come after the marriage but he loves your sister & would want to marry her. At the same time, a man that has his life together, money, status, & is as much a good man as the other guy is knocking.

Would you advise your sister to go ahead and marry the broke guy, especially if she's young, very pretty, a virgin or has very low body count? You most probably would not do that. She has options, and she has to go with the one that best satisfies her primary desires.

Same applies to men when they want to choose women.

Being a single mother is an indication of a lot of things.

Firstly, it indicates that a woman made really poor decisions in her youth. She gave her youth to a man who wasn't ready to reward her with commitment.

Typically, she had the good guys who were ready to commit to her in the friend zone but preferred to fvck the bad boy who she knew from the onset wasn't ready to give her the ring. She knew, she's not dumb; they always know the bad boys aren't ready to commit.

They see the red flags but choose to ignore them.

Secondly, if she was married but is now divorced, men are usually very wary of that and rightfully so. If she couldn't stay in the first marriage, what's the guarantee that she'll stay in the second?

Except in cases of domestic violence and cheating for some people, she shouldn't have left her first marriage. We cuddle women in 2022 to believe that once they aren't happy in a marriage, they should leave. Marriage isn't about happiness; it's about duty.

It's not fun for the man to go out every single day and work his life out to get the wife and kids a good life. It can't always be fun for the wife too. MARRIAGE IS DUTY. So stay in your marriage and make it work.

Thirdly, every man wants to build his own legacy.

The child of the man that got you pregnant isn't the new man's legacy. He's literally building another man's legacy, not his. To further make this point clear, he has all the responsibility but zero authority over the child. He can't discipline him like his own child because

funny enough, the woman will always remind him that the child isn't his. Talmabout 'don't hit my child like that'. Again, if the marriage breaks up, she leaves with that child he has taken so much responsibility for. He has no right to claim the child. The child may grow and

decide he doesn't owe the stepfather respect; after all, he's not his biological father.

Again, if, as a woman, you've given ur youth and purity (two things men value so much) to another man, what am I getting from you? If I told her my previous relationships took all my money &

I have no money to bring to the table, regardless of my reason, will it be ideal for her to stay with a man like me? No! Women will look into my eyes & REJECT me. Zero empathy. That's the same when men choose wives. If the last guy enjoyed ur youth & purity, what's there for me?

Lastly, if she was a victim of r@pe or domestic v!olence, it's unfortunate that happened, but it doesn't make her automatically deserving of a man, especially one that's very well-to-do. Remember, a man getting scammed of his fortunes is unfortunate, but he'll still get rejected.

Broke men find wives but never the best-looking women cause those men understand they're not the highest value they can be. Single mothers may find men, but it won't typically be men that have sh!t together. Well-to-do men have options & single mothers aren't their first option

Men understand this and are okay with what they can get; however, women are not. They want to be single mothers and get the highest value man. No, you can't hit above your level.

Don't do it bro. Don't marry single mothers, especially if you're a man with options.

Remember, you worked so hard to even get the opportunity to be in the position to choose, don't fumble it. If you were broke, she won't choose you.

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