In the story of the virgins, five were called wise while the other half were called Foolish. The distinguishing part was that the wise virgins had extra oil. But whay is most intriguing is that the Bible still called the virgins with extea oil WISE even when they refused...1
...To share their extra oil with the other Virgins. They were not called stingy and thrown out because of that. What this teaches us is that sometimes we have to first cater for our needs before carrying the burdens of others. It is good to share but when...2
..that is detrimental to achieving your goals, I would want to suggest that you choose to be called "Stingy". #musings