From a mom in Spain 🇪🇸.It’s difficult not to think in mothers from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 or everywhere.
“10 months ago today family life took an unexpected turn. My daughter, who’d dropped out of school due to very serious mental health problems, left a letter headed: "Mom, I'm trans."1/7
“I took a breath, relieved, an hour ago she had gone for a walk and I came to think that it was a suicide letter.
Years of bullying, attempting suicide, changing schools, depression, psychotic breaks, hearing voices and seeing shadows, self-harm, mental block, bulimia,...What 2/7
else could I expect?Never expected her being trans. In the letter, it caught my attention that she said she discovered it recently thanks to internet...That didn't make sense to me, how can someone find out who she is through social media?
Talking calmly with her, she assured 3/7
to me that she had been born in the wrong body, that we had assigned her female at birth…I didn’t believe that speech.She asked for hormones and a mastectomy, that we call her with masculine name and pronouns bc her friends already did it, those friends who 8, as far as I 4/7
know, are trans, one of them my niece.
Now, 10 months later, she is not sure about the hormones or the mastectomy. We speak to her in feminine and we use the name that lovingly we gave her at birth.
Months working on her self-esteem with her therapist, his guardian angel, she is
smiling again.
But from now on, with the #Translaw we expose ourselves to the fact that the prudence we have used to heal her discomfort, costs us an economic fine. For the moment we have been able to avoid Social Services.
Yes, a fine of up to €150,000 just for asking for 6/7
PRUDENCE and treating all the mental health problems derived from her bullying, when is the only logical solution that any father and mother who loves their daughter more than their own life would do”. 7/7
#NoToSelfID #StopLeyTrans #NoContabanConLasMadres

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