Every month or so, the Woman Has Said a Bad Word circus comes to town. This time around, the woman is Greta Thunberg, who has been a target of countless powerful misogynist pricks since her early teens.
And I don't give a flying fuck what she said to that misogynist prick.
If you think she owes a self-described misogynist any form of "sensitivity" and you're attacking her for "body shaming" him, you've got it upside down.
Fuck him and his small dick energy.
Whether we are urged to be civil to racists or polite to patriarchy, the goal is the same: to maintain the power of the racist, to maintain the power of patriarchy.
Care less about the feelings of misogynist fucks and more about the actual violence they incite.
Profanity is one of The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls because it is politically important. It is the verbal equivalent of civil disobedience.
An excerpt from the chapter on Profanity in my book.
Patriarchy reserves for itself the power to offend, the power to be obscene. And yet it wastes no time in policing women’s mouths as vehemently as it does the genitals of anyone who is not a cisgender heterosexual man.
“In the Taliban’s Afghanistan, there is no need for adolescent girls to study…for young women to learn...The relentless codification of control over their futures, their ambitions, and their bodies has unfolded across 2022 with slow brutality” washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/…
“We’ve worked hard to convince our families, wore full black hijabs, and compromised our freedom of choice just to keep university doors open for women...but it’s not on us anymore – it’s the Taliban who must learn to behave.” hrw.org/news/2022/12/2…
"The comprehensive onslaught on women’s rights in Afghanistan is unmatched in the world today...What happens to women and girls in Afghanistan is our global responsibility. We must continue to amplify their voices as they resist erasure." unwomen.org/en/news-storie…
“…most OB/GYN residents get about one to two hours of instruction on menopause care and, when surveyed, said that they did not feel comfortable managing menopause upon completion of their programs.” nytimes.com/2022/12/20/sty… h/t @rerutled
At my last visit my OB/GYN she asked me if a younger doctor, I'm assuming one who wanted to specialize in OB/GYN, could sit in on our time together.
I enthusiastically said yes because I had inkling that the younger doctor rarely saw perimenopausal people like me.
I went in because I knew my M Day--Menopause is actually just that one day that marks 12 months since your last period--was soon approaching and there were things I wanted to discuss with my doctor for the years ahead.
It was one of the longest visits I've had with my doctor.
Western media continue sanitizing the revolution, replacing the middle fingers raised that we've seen coming from Iran w/ V for peace/victory. This is Le Monde & TIME #mahsaami̇ni̇#IranRevolution
Why do these media impose a politeness that is not there?
We've seen schoolgirls raise middle fingers to their dictators. We've seen revolutionaries burn shit down as they rise up against their oppressors.