We don’t talk enough about our failures. Acknowledging them is important. So here’s a a #FailureThread of the top 5 things I didn’t do well in 2022: 1. Quality sleep: I didn’t meet my goal. Falling asleep is not a problem, my nemesis was the occasional 3am waking up in spite of…
…doing OK on meditation/exercise/diet(MED).I scored low on S of MEDS 2. Startup investing: Valuations were choppy and forming an investment thesis was tough. As a result I slowed down. Though 2023 is likely to be volatile as well, I plan to have a clearer investment philosophy.
3. Learning - Artificial Intelligence will revolutionize pretty much all spheres of work and living. I planned to deepen my grasp of AI, by doing 5 online modules. I didn’t finish them. I had also identified a few modules on Crypto, but not finishing them was intentional! :-)
4. Writing a book - I had planned to focus on writing a book but didn’t spend adequate attention to it. My excuse was dearth of time, but I think the deeper issue was motivation. We make time for things that matter!
5. Golf- I thought I’ll break 90. I didn’t. I enjoyed playing golf but improving score demands range practice. I started enjoying running even more after I stopped tracking my speed. I guess some things are done not for scores, but because they bring you joy!
Tweeted this yesterday, and funnily enough today i almost broke 90. Scored 91, so there’a good chance I might have one less failure for next year. Which also means it will be time to find a new challenge - if you’re not failing enough, you’re not challenging yourself enough!
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Our son turns 18 tomorrow. Parenting journeys are rarely perfect but almost always fun. Parents make many mistakes, learn several lessons and in the process get reacquainted with life itself. So here’s a thread that young/would-be parents might find useful: (1/n)
1. The best thing parents can provide kids is exposure to new places/cultures. We decided we’ll visit at least 1 new country a year. I can’t understand parents who travel w/o kids coz they’re too young to remember. That’s like not telling them stories coz they won’t remember(2/n)
2. Make them animal friendly - Being kind to animals teaches kids empathy. Empathy for those weaker than us, for the environment, for this world. It unlocks a certain emotional segment of our brain that only animal lovers are familiar with. (3/n)
There’s a beautiful story of compassion associated with Diwali that Sikhs celebrate. The Sikh Guru Hargobind (17th cen.) was to be released from Gwalior prison on Diwali by Emperor Jahangir. The Guru insisted he’ll leave only if fellow prisoners (52 Hindu princes) are freed 1/3
The Emperor agreed with one condition. He can take as many Hindu princes as can cling to his coat tails. The Guru got a special coat made with 52 strings, allowing all the princes to hold on & walk out with him. This is known as ‘Bandi chhor diwas’ (prisoner release day) 2/3
So if you visit a Gurudwara on Diwali and see Sikhs lighting candles, they are observing the victory of good over evil (the legend of Ram and Ravana) as much as the message of inter-religious tolerance, harmony and compassion of Bandi Chhor Diwas!
A thread on what makes a good pitch:
Good pitches are outside-in & start from an external position- a problem u r solving or a client’s objective. Starting with ‘this is who we are' works sometimes. But mostly people don’t care about who u r. They care about what you are solving.
Good pitches first appeal to System1, then System2. In his book 'Thinking, Fast and Slow', Daniel Kahneman talks about System1 (intuitive thinking) and System 2 (deliberate thinking). Good pitches first appeal to System1. And if needed, have adequate details for System 2.
Good pitches are like trees. Everything is interconnected in a logical flow with no jarring surprises. Unless you have a surprise worthy of a Steve Jobs’ ‘one more thing’ trick!