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@pallnandi

Jan 26

Most men enter marriage blind. Here’s the brutal truth about marrying women over 30 that nobody tells you.

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She is more experienced than you. By 30+ she hasn’t just lived longer, she’s lived more relationships. She’s been loved, disappointed, betrayed, and bored multiple times. That history doesn’t vanish when she settles. You’re stepping into a story that started long before you.

Her body count is higher than yours. This isn’t about morality, it’s about attachment. Every past lover shapes her emotional wiring. You’re not measured against ideals, you’re measured against memories. Desire, patience, and tolerance are already shaped before you arrived.

She may be marrying you to make her ex jealous. Some marriages are trophies not love. You become proof that she won, not that she chose. Once the validation is claimed, excitement fades. Her reasons may be external, and love can be secondary to optics.

You are not her true love. Her deepest emotional imprint belongs to someone else, likely a reckless passionate love from her past. You may be logical, safe, convenient. Safety never inspires devotion. Passion never follows caution.

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Nandi 🤍💜🤍

@pallnandi

Jan 20

You can’t love a single mother the same way you love a woman without children. Not because she’s broken, but because her life already has a center. That center is her child. You are entering a story that started long before you arrived.

A 🧵. Walk with me >>>>>

There are many reasons women become single mothers. Some lost a husband. Some were abandoned. Some were self inflicted. Some were betrayed. Some were violated. Except in the case of widowhood, love for them is complicated by pain, caution, and survival instincts shaped by experience.

Loving a single mother means training, providing for, and emotionally investing in another man’s child. It means earning love from children who may already be grown, guarded, or resentful. You’re not just dating her. You’re inheriting unfinished history.

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Nandi 🤍💜🤍

@pallnandi

Jan 4

All women say they want a good man until they actually meet one and realize he isn’t convenient. A good man doesn’t bend for chaos. He doesn’t rearrange his values because emotions are high. He has structure, discipline and standards.

A 🧵, walk with me >>

And this is where the confusion starts. When you’ve never experienced emotional maturity, you misread it. You call him cold because he won’t entertain drama. You call him selfish because he protects his peace.

You label him detached because he won’t beg for approval or chase validation. But that isn’t a lack of love. That’s self respect. And not everyone is equipped to handle a man who actually has it.

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Nandi 🤍💜🤍

@pallnandi

Jan 3

Some of you are building your entire relationship mindset off social media lies, and it’s costing you real connection. Today let’s put a few of them to rest.

Ready? Let’s start with the most popular ones.

Walk with me. A 🧵

If he wanted to, he would.
Not always true. Sometimes he doesn’t because he doesn’t know how. Healthy love may never have been modeled for him. Wanting and knowing are not the same thing, and confusing them leads to resentment.

Effort matters, yes. But people are human. They have blind spots, fears, and weaknesses. Real love isn’t flawless execution. It’s honest effort, learning, and consistency over time, not perfection from day one.

“Relationships are easy when they’re real.” That’s a fairy tale. Real love is work. It’s sacrifice. It’s two imperfect people choosing each other repeatedly, even when it’s uncomfortable and inconvenient.

If you’re looking for easy, you’re not looking for love. You’re looking for entertainment. Conflict, forgiveness, and repair aren’t red flags. They’re proof that something meaningful is happening.

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Nandi 🤍💜🤍

@pallnandi

Dec 6, 2025

For men, love alone isn’t enough. Respect matters more. Here are three behaviors women do that men instantly recognize as disrespect.

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Confronting a man: To a man, confrontation is an act of war. When you approach him with aggression, attitude and masculine energy, he doesn’t hear “concern.” He hears “competition.” And no man wants to feel like he’s battling the woman in his home. Learning how to communicate your concerns is key.

Raising your voice: When you raise your voice, you’re not being “passionate.” You’re treating him like a child. No man wants to be spoken to loudly by the woman he loves. Men crave softness, subtlety, and respect, not shouting and noise.

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Nandi 🤍💜🤍

@pallnandi

Sep 10, 2025

Men, listen up. Marrying a woman your age isn’t love, it’s settling for less. If you think otherwise, you’re lying to yourself and you’ll regret it in the future.

Let me explain>>>>> A 🧵

Between 16 and 18, you barely knew how to talk to girls. She was already dating men 10 to 15 years older and living a life you weren’t ready for. That’s the truth.

By 18 to 20, you had nothing, no money, no house, little independence. She already had experiences, heartbreaks, and lessons you’ll never catch up to. Stop pretending it’s the same game when it’s rigged.

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