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Feb 6 9 tweets 3 min read
Claim: "Women that are older than 30 are undesirable because women age like milk."

Besides this claim finding it's origin in red pill ideology and popular podcasts run by fussāq and kuffār, let's analyze this claim on its face.
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Remember what this claim is specifically addressing it has nothing to do wl recommendations to marry young, a virgin, or 2nd marriages. Your claim is "women after 30 are undesirable" and you have used a poor, false, and insulting analogy to try and bolster your claim.

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## On to the facts: ##
- It is a fact that there is no specific recommended numeric age of marriage mentioned in any texts.
- It is a fact that he ﷺ married women that were over the age of 30 as well as younger than 30.

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- It is a fact that he ﷺ practiced polygyny & that no reason other than wanting to marry is needed to do this.
- It is also a fact that his personal motivations for these marriages are unknown. Attempting to find a motivation is guesswork, not his ﷺ personal motivation.
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## Let's walk through your claims: ##
A. If you speak about women over the age of 30 as being undesirable you are implying that the Prophet ﷺ did something which was undesirable, therefore you have disliked his actions which is a sin.
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B. If you say it is undesirable for you but not for him ﷺ, you claim to know better than him, which is a sin.
C. If you say it is specific to him but not you, you've made a baseless claim, as he & his companions married over 30, so you've spoken w/o knowledge, also a sin.
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And lastly

D. If you say that women over 30 are desirable but it is preferred to marry a younger age, then you've made another baseless claim (as numeric age is never mentioned as a motivation to marry), another sin.

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E. With this last claim you've contradicted your original statement, so why should we believe you if you do that? Being duplicitous is a sin.

Choose your own adventure.

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PS. If you'd like to comment with insults, I simply can't thank you enough for the Ajr.

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