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Feb 14 15 tweets 4 min read
10 mental concepts that will make you way smarter:
Systems vs. Goals

To achieve more, focus on the process first—the system—that will get you to the goal.

Doing something every day is a system—like writing for 1 hour.

Writing a book is a goal.

"Goals determine your direction. Systems determine your progress.”
—James Clear Systems vs. Goals
Antifragility

Antifragility is benefitting from disorder, change, or unexpected events.

The things that have survived the longest in the universe have an antifragile system in place—the things that haven’t, don’t.

To succeed long-term, we should strive to be antifragile.
Necessity & Sufficiency

A necessity is something you must have to achieve an outcome.

Sufficiency is what you actually need to achieve the outcome.

Necessary conditions must be present, but on their own, aren’t enough for achievement. Necessity & Sufficiency
Table Selection

The game you play—or the table you select—is more important than how you play.

You don’t need to get good at doing difficult things if you get good at avoiding difficult things.

If you want to win, pick an easy table and nail your execution.
Backwards Law

The more you pursue feeling better all the time, the less satisfied you become, as pursuing something only reinforces the fact that you lack it in the first place.

Wanting what you have is as good as having what you want.

—Alan Watts
The 10:10:10 Strategy

Before making a decision, ask:

How will I feel 10 minutes from now?

10 hours from now?

10 days from now?

This will force you to think about the longer-term impact of what's facing you.

Don’t make decisions based on immediate gratification.
Stress + Rest = Growth

To grow you must do two things:
1. Challenge and push yourself—feel the burn.
2. Relax and give yourself time to recover.

Constant stress without rest is a recipe for burnout.

Relaxation without stress will leave you nowhere.

@BStulberg
Wrong-Side-of-Maybe Fallacy

People judge the same way: they look at which side of “maybe”—50%—the probability was on.

If the forecast said there was a 70% chance of rain and it rains, people think the forecast was right; if it doesn’t rain, they think it was wrong.

@PTetlock
Introspection Illusion

We think we understand our motivations and desires, our likes and dislikes.

We believe we know ourselves and why we are the way we are.

In reality, when asked to explain our emotional states, we typically make something up.

Dig deeper, reflect more.
Gambler's Fallacy

We think future possibilities are affected by past events.

You've lost 9 in a row, but you're sure to win the next one!

You've won 9 in a row, how could you possibly lose the next one?!

Lesson: Treat each possibility independent of the past.
TL;DR — 

1. Systems vs. Goals
2. Antifragility
3. Necessity & Sufficiency
4. Table Selection
5. Backwards Law
6. The 10:10:10 Strategy
7. Stress + Rest = Growth
8. Wrong-Side-of-Maybe Fallacy
9. Introspection Illusion
10. Gambler's Fallacy
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Communication is a fundamental building block of life.

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15 things you should say ‘no’ to for a happier life:
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You should say 'no' to those who take and 'yes' to those who give.

Being generous and willing to give is good, but only give to those who will not abuse your kindness.
2. Waiting Too Much

Life is too short to be waiting:

• In line
• In traffic
• For slow service

Instead of wasting time waiting, be productive.

Catch up on emails.

Prepare and read a book.

Ponder something you've learned.

Use your waiting time to enhance your life.
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It’s a recipe for avoiding self-destruction.

It helps you take action on that ‘thing’ you fear doing most.

Here’s what it is and how you can use it to take action:
"We suffer more in imagination than in reality"
—Seneca The Younger

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It means "the premeditation of evil."

In other words, visualizing possible evil.
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The 3 key elements of a great apology (according to science):
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You've probably heard some wrong ways.

Things like:

"I guess I'm sorry."

"I'll do better next time."

"You know I didn't mean it."

"I'm sorry you feel this way."
A good apology follows certain principles, but what are they?

If you truly want to express your regret, what are the key elements you should include?

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Here are the pieces of a good apology:
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