My father has one bad habit, he’s way too soft hearted and can’t say the word “No” and most of the people around him used it against him, always asking and he kept giving.
We had more than enough, so nobody complained until as businesses go, we had issues.
Business became very bad, some of his containers were delayed for months both on the high sea and when they came into Nigeria.
By the time it came back to Aba, the goods were destroyed, we’re talking about 40 feet container worth millions (when Naira was still Naira).
From there everything took a nose dive and guess what all those people around him all ran away.
Some promised to help but never did but one woman stood by him, the woman was one of his marketers then, she never forgot how my dad helped her start her own importation business.
She helped my father get back to business with her own money, without asking for ONE KOBO and whenever we thank her, she goes, “Your father did the same for me when I was starting, it’s nothing my children”
Even in a world where people quickly forget kindness, it pays to be good
And I also learnt how to say “No” by force because I nearly followed my fathers pathway.
Saying “No” when it’s not convenient doesn’t mean you’re wicked, it’s only reasonable, you don’t cut yourself to stop others from bleeding.
Do have a nice day guys!!!
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BREAKING: Elder statesman, Chief Edwin Clark, has endorsed the candidacy of @PeterObi for the 2023 general elections.
Chief Clark announced his position at a news briefing today in Abuja.
The elder statesman based his endorsement of Mr. Obi, who is the Presidential Candidate of the Labour Party on traits he believes are critical to leading the country.
Explaining further, he cited honesty, trust, and transparency, all of which he said Mr. Obi displayed when he was governor of Anambra State.
The day I knew I didn’t have a future practicing medicine in Nigeria was the day I was almost beaten by a patient relative in children’s emergency after their daughter died.
It took the quick thinking of the matron to use her body as shield to save me that night.
What happened?
It was a Saturday morning and I was on call in Children’s Emergency.
I arrived my happy self, cracked jokes with the matron on call and did a brief ward round with the consultant, and Senior Register on call.
We came to this baby girl that was looking seriously sick.
She looked like a skeleton as she was severely malnourished, this also caused her to have severe sepsis(infection).
My consultant noticed the antibiotics she was placed on wasn’t working as she was still having fever, changed it and told me to write a referral to Dietitians.