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JOHNDOE’s PA(pidgin)

@johndoe_pa

Feb 19

If you're always shying away from telling your woman the truth, just because you don't want to hurt her feelings, you can't lead her.

Women are naturally stubborn.

If she sees that you're always enabling her wrong deeds, she'll not trust your leadership.

You're weak to her.

Now, when I say the truth here, I'm not saying you should be arguing with her like a woman.

Speak firm and speak little.

It doesn't also mean you should say things to her, that you should not say.

Those things you know you need to correct, are what I'm talking about.

So be

wise in your dealings with her.

What you know is purely feminine nature, you can overlook.

But what you know is against the feminine nature, you should not overlook.

Especially if she's doing it, to either hurt you or hurt herself or your children.

Don't also forget, that a

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JOHNDOE’s PA(pidgin)

@johndoe_pa

Feb 19

In marriage ,women are handlers and caretakers of the house

They are also responsible for keeping the marriage going,

However, all these won’t be achieved if the man fails to provide,protect ,and lead her right .

Even a female lawyer will fails in her home if her husband

didn’t lead her right ,

Women are generally dependent upon men while men are independent which makes them the head .

But only when you lead her right , will that authority be given to you .
That why when you give up your role of provision as a man . You’ll get punished for it

And if a woman gives up her own of role of submission and being feminine,
Then her home will be compromised.

All this things are there from time everlasting, only those who fails to adhere gets the hurtful experience in their relationship or marriage

No matter how strong

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JOHNDOE’s PA(pidgin)

@johndoe_pa

Feb 18

Men ,

Yes ! We said you should always stay five steps ahead of your wife ,

however we never said you should be insecure!

If your wife has the potential to make something for herself , not a big deal

Always make sure her “HYPERGAMY” is in check

Women typically don’t respect men who they are bigger than (financially,educational,socially,intellectually).
But your masculinity in most ways,tames her hypergamy .

Especially if she’s someone you’ve been together with for longer time

And you shouldn’t aswell feel entitled

And fall back to her always for financial assistance, you’re the man and it’s your duty to provide.

Keep her “hypergamy” in check ,by making more than she could be making or make sure you handle the major financial responsibilities ,

Hence maintaining ur position as the “HEAD”

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JOHNDOE’s PA(pidgin)

@johndoe_pa

Feb 18

Men make the mistake of proposing commitment & relationship to women. .

Before a woman have sex with you, you’ve passed her tests, therefore you qualified

Before you give her relationship/commitment,she has to qualify too, she has to earn it , with her submission, femininity

& loyalty and other acts of service she willingly renders.

Women won’t throw sex at your face , you have to earn it. Unless she’s Olosho .or hookup girl

Why would you throw your commitment at her face ?

Which brought about the saying, that women are the gatekeepers of sex

while men the gatekeepers of commitment.

That’s why some of this small small boys will be giving ordinary girlfriend wife treatment

even some simp go as far as to taking one ngbeke to trip to dubai & and get them expensive gift just because they see Snapchat filter pictures

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JOHNDOE’s PA(pidgin)

@johndoe_pa

Feb 17

Men ,

Protect your wife from your mother and family

She’s your wife and your mother is your father’s wife .

Though two of them are of your importance, but your wife is the co originator of your own generation.let her get that praises .

let your mother focus on your father

She should not be seen making Oder on how you should run your family, her mother in law never did same to her !

She shouldn’t be seen trying to manipulate you like a toy to the detriment of your family,

She should visit and go when due ..
You shouldn’t co habit them both

Together unless otherwise and if her husband is late , her daughter should play that role of taking her along with the consent of their husband, not you bringing her in to share same house with your wife…this will help to curb some women palava ,hence preserving your wife shame

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JOHNDOE’s PA(pidgin)

@johndoe_pa

Feb 17

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Do not get married to any man, that doesn't live in his own house or rented apartment.

No matter how small the apartment is, & as long as he's the one paying for the rent.

It doesn't matter if he's the only son & his father is no more.

If the mother is still alive, that house

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belongs to his mother and remains a family house.

He should go and rent his own place where both of you will live as husband and wife.

A place devoid of any distractions, side talks, poke nosing, envy, competition etc.

A lot of women, out of desperation, have gone ahead to

marry such men.

May be you need to ask them, if they're truly happy?

A woman's territory is her home.

If you as a man, owns a mansion with boys' quarters, and then your family member lives in the boys' quarters, your wife will still feel like her territory is being encroached.

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