10 lessons from the book “The Answer” 1. If you want a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things. 2. You don't have to be great to get started. But you have to get started to become great.
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3. When you are writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen. 4. Your life is a result of the choices you make. If you don't like your life, start making better Choices. 5. If you want the things in your life to change, change the things in your life.
6. If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. 7. Failure is a prerequisite for great success. If you want to succeed faster, double your rate of failure.
8. The best way to improve is to surround yourself with better people. They will make you a better person. 9. Be with people who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.
10. Science has proved that the more you smile, the more positive reactions others will give you.
1) You Become What You Think
You are what you are right now because of the thoughts you once had or have. If you want to change yourself, you should first start with changing your thoughts. All the actions of man arise from the hidden seeds of thoughts.
Just with the right choice and application of thought, man can ascend to divine perfection; while with wrong choice and application of thought, he can rise below the level of the beast.
HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF (1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you. (2) Stop begging. (3) Stop saying more than is necessary. (4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours. (6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it. (7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
(😎 Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth. (10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.