so, you're traveling to Japan and you want to wear kimono?
not sure what type of rental shop to go for?
as a professional kimono stylist, I'm here to give you a quick guide on types of kimono rental shops in Japan and what to expect depending on which one you choose!
RENTAL KIMONO ONLY
These shops are what I like to call "factory line" kimono rental shops. You go from station to station, picking out kimono, and shop staff help you. Their job is to get you in and out as fast as possible, especially if there are a lot of people waiting
These shop staff have a range of experience with kimono; some of them genuinely have kimono knowledge and understand how to coordinate well. Others know that foreigners don't know any better and just want the flashiest, brightest pattern possible
Because they usually have so many people waiting, your experience won't be very personalized. Again, they need to get you in and out as fast as possible, so chances are, you won't know much about the pattern on the kimono, the history of the garment, etc.
Because the experience isn't very personalized, it is the cheapest. Prices tend to range from ¥3,000-3,500 (ish). They'll offer packages for couples, friends, etc.
However! Things like styling hair and adding accessories usually cost extra, and sometimes they're not upfront
Some rental shops will display a full menu of what they're offering regarding kimono rental (hair, accessories, etc). Sometimes they ask you if you want them as you go along, and then SURPRISE! You get quoted much higher at checkout than you thought. Be careful!
If you are plus sized, smaller kimono rental shops may not carry your size OR they may not know how to dress you properly. I've had to re-do a friend's kimono because she rented from a smaller shop that was unfamiliar with plus sized bodies, and she was VERY uncomfortable
The bigger the kimono rental shop (i.e. if it's a chain or is in a more dense tourist area), the more likely they are to carry plus sizes, as they're used to a wider variety of tourists.
Another downside to these kimono rental places (at least for me as a professional) is that a lot of these kimono are actually mass-produced at factories, usually not even in Japan, and sometimes shop staff claim they're not polyester... when they actually are
PRIVATE STYLISTS
A private kimono stylist is going to offer you a much more personalized experience. Your kimono outfit for the day is going to be discussed in advance and catered to your preferences (color scheme, what looks best on you, etc)
However! It's more expensive
Because your experience is much more personalized and involves the stylist choosing items for you with more care and expertise, a rental from a stylist usually starts higher, around ¥6000, though some stylists offer less in order to compete with the 'factory' line shops
Most kimono stylists are going to also walk you through the process of how you're being dressed, explain the function of what everything does, and also tell you about the pattern and the fabric of the kimono, which is a more memorable experience IMO
Kimono stylists can often do hair and provide accessories as well, and the cost depends on each stylist for how much. Like rental shops, this is usually an additional charge.
Professional kimono stylists are also often trained to dress different body types and usually know how to make the right adjustments for your body shape and size with the padding and overall dressing
Regardless of whatever you choose, I hope you enjoy being dressed in kimono!
If you liked this thread, I have a kimono account as a professional stylist here: @mainichi_kimono where I share information about kimono and show dressing from time to time
If you're coming to the Kansai area at the end of March for cherry blossoms, consider booking me! I'm available for both kimono dressings AND I help you shop for your own secondhand kimono, if you've always wanted to buy your own kimono! mainichikimono.as.me
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Being that I’m extremely white-passing, I feel like it’s better for me to ask others to chime in, especially others who are ethnically Chinese and live in Japan
so for anyone who follows me who is ethnically Chinese and lives in Japan, anything to add?
I wish I didn’t have to give such a disclaimer, but there is definitely some anti-Chinese sentiment here. Not everyone has it, but it still exists. Some of my older students have definitely expressed such ideas
That’s why I would prefer to let someone else answer if possible
I think the only thing I can (reluctantly) say is that Mainland Chinese tourists have gotten a bad reputation for poor manners here in Japan.
Not everyone from PRC acts poorly, ofc! But it’s made the news from time to time like so, which has increased anti-Chinese sentiments
as a foreigner, especially if you do not "look Japanese", people are (generally!) going to regard you in one of two ways
1) awww, look at the cute foreigner! they're trying!
2) ugh, filthy foreigner. gtfo.
you cannot win. you will never win.
most people here in Japan will, in general, think that you are either an adorable thing trying their best or be uncomfortable with you and silently seething at your very existence, no matter how well (or not!) you follow the rules
in the process of trying to find another lawyer for my divorce (I was quoted ¥500,000!!!!) to try and find cheaper options, I wrote to a lawyer in Osaka whose inquiry form demanded my phone number
and now I’m being spammed daily with messages and calls 😭
It turns out this is a somewhat common scam; this person’s law office has been used to try and scam people for a while
The “deadline” for me to pay them (lol) is tomorrow on the 27th so I’m hoping, perhaps naively, that after the 27th it’ll stop
My Japanese grandmother survived the Hiroshima bombing. She lived in a time period where children's lives, just like her own, were not worth as much as portraits of Emperor Hirohito.
So yes, I do NOT want Japan to go back to that. And I will speak out on it.
I'm quite sure anyone with even a bit of compassion would understand that if something like that directly affected their family, they would speak out on it, hm?
Especially if they live in that country, and are watching something LDP politicians speak Imperialism in real time
“…His Majesty the Emperor is a direct descendant of Amaterasu. The Emperor’s mythological origins aren’t found on the Imperial Household Agency's website, nor have been sufficiently conveyed to children in postwar school education. We request efforts be made…
…in order to make people become aware of the Emperor’s existence as it is connected to mythology.”
Holy crap, the amount of alarm bells going off in my head. This is SO bad.
For those of you unaware, what was formerly known in English as ‘State Shinto’ was founded on this principal. This really reeks of potentially trying to rebuild Imperialist thinking, where the Emperor was worshipped as a living god.
I want to bounce back to this for a sec, because we NEED to have a discussion about the validity of "listening to Both Sides of an argument", and how platforming ignorance can- and has!- caused damage
we need to, as a society, understand when to listen... and when not to
it should go without saying that OP in the above example claiming that we humans "don't have immune systems" is nonsense
but based on the current (incorrect) concept of "we need to listen to both sides of an argument to get the complete picture", the wrong people get platformed
we see this time and time again especially in civil rights discourse. in an ideal world, every time we have conflicting arguments, they would be logically sound and we could have a rational debate
but the problem comes in that many people don't KNOW what makes an argument valid