Work 12 hours each day
Sacrifices family reunions
Never go to clubs
Never drink
Never smoke
A lady seduces her into a marriage, and he loses 50% of everything.
This is what he said to the world:
1. Build slower than you trust
A company can take decades to build and one bad personal decision can cut it in half. Most men do due diligence on deals and skip it in dating. That is backwards.
The bigger your life becomes, the more careful your choices must become.
Love should not remove judgment. Judgment should protect love. Slow trust saves empires.
2. Desire can cloud discipline
A man can be disciplined in business and still be weak in loneliness. Work strength does not always become emotional strength.
Long hours and sacrifice can leave a man starving for softness. Hunger makes bad choices feel like destiny.
That is why private weakness matters more than public success. Success does not protect you from seduction. Self awareness does.
The other night, I was sitting at the bar, minding my own business, when I noticed something all too familiar.
A girl was staring at a man across the room, sending him clear signals. You could see it on her face: she wanted him to come closer.
But guess what? He didn't. Either he didn't notice, didn't know what to do, or just froze. That's what gave me the idea for this thread on Thursday, September 12, 2024.
So many people miss these golden opportunities. Sometimes, all it takes is one look to set things in motion.
When she looks at you, what do you do?
First of all, don't panic. I know what you're thinking: Is she really looking at me? Yes, she is.
She's looking at you. And this is your moment. Don't be nervous, don't overthink things. You're the man, and she's already chosen to give you her attention.
Make it your own.
2. Next, take a breath.
Give yourself five seconds. You've just caught her looking in your direction and need a moment to compose yourself.
Don't rush. Look away briefly and think about what you're going to do next.
It's a strategic pause, but trust me, it works. By taking these five seconds, you do two things.
Firstly, you're calming yourself so you don't come at her with nervous energy.
And secondly, you give her a little doubt, making her wonder if she's losing your attention.
Women, like everyone else, fear being rejected, even by someone they don't yet know. She may think: "Isn't he interested?" or even: "Did I misinterpret that?".
But that's fine, because when you turn back to her, she'll be more committed.
Complimenting a woman is a beautiful thing; however, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it.
There isn't a woman on this planet for whom flattery doesn't work, so make sure you're smart when you're complimenting.
The way to compliment a woman is not to be superficial. You have to give her deep compliments. For example, try praising her personality. If you want to compliment a woman, tell her she's a hard worker or has a very artistic and creative mind.
That's the kind of compliment she wants to hear. Don't compliment her physical features by saying things like "you have beautiful lips". These compliments can make her feel insecure and weird. If you want to praise her physical features, compliment something she's been working on.
Comment on her eyes if she's worn good mascara. These are things you should strive to notice.
2. Interesting conversations
To get a woman to call and text you every day, it's essential to have exciting conversations.
You need to pique her interest in every possible way. Every conversation you have with her shouldn't seem forced; it should be natural and fluid so that she feels comfortable talking to you.
How can you make your conversations interesting? The first step is to ask open-ended questions. Open-ended questions are those to which she doesn't have to answer with a simple yes or no.
This type of question will psychologically allow her to say more. If you ask simple yes/no questions, she'll get bored of you.
So ask her questions like: "How did you discover your hobbies?". This type of question will set her heart and mind on fire.
She'll be more passionate about the conversation when you ask questions like these, because they're about her. Make sure you do this if you want her to feel dependent on you.