The other night, I was sitting at the bar, minding my own business, when I noticed something all too familiar.
A girl was staring at a man across the room, sending him clear signals. You could see it on her face: she wanted him to come closer.
But guess what? He didn't. Either he didn't notice, didn't know what to do, or just froze. That's what gave me the idea for this thread on Thursday, September 12, 2024.
So many people miss these golden opportunities. Sometimes, all it takes is one look to set things in motion.
When she looks at you, what do you do?
First of all, don't panic. I know what you're thinking: Is she really looking at me? Yes, she is.
She's looking at you. And this is your moment. Don't be nervous, don't overthink things. You're the man, and she's already chosen to give you her attention.
Make it your own.
2. Next, take a breath.
Give yourself five seconds. You've just caught her looking in your direction and need a moment to compose yourself.
Don't rush. Look away briefly and think about what you're going to do next.
It's a strategic pause, but trust me, it works. By taking these five seconds, you do two things.
Firstly, you're calming yourself so you don't come at her with nervous energy.
And secondly, you give her a little doubt, making her wonder if she's losing your attention.
Women, like everyone else, fear being rejected, even by someone they don't yet know. She may think: "Isn't he interested?" or even: "Did I misinterpret that?".
But that's fine, because when you turn back to her, she'll be more committed.
Complimenting a woman is a beautiful thing; however, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it.
There isn't a woman on this planet for whom flattery doesn't work, so make sure you're smart when you're complimenting.
The way to compliment a woman is not to be superficial. You have to give her deep compliments. For example, try praising her personality. If you want to compliment a woman, tell her she's a hard worker or has a very artistic and creative mind.
That's the kind of compliment she wants to hear. Don't compliment her physical features by saying things like "you have beautiful lips". These compliments can make her feel insecure and weird. If you want to praise her physical features, compliment something she's been working on.
Comment on her eyes if she's worn good mascara. These are things you should strive to notice.
2. Interesting conversations
To get a woman to call and text you every day, it's essential to have exciting conversations.
You need to pique her interest in every possible way. Every conversation you have with her shouldn't seem forced; it should be natural and fluid so that she feels comfortable talking to you.
How can you make your conversations interesting? The first step is to ask open-ended questions. Open-ended questions are those to which she doesn't have to answer with a simple yes or no.
This type of question will psychologically allow her to say more. If you ask simple yes/no questions, she'll get bored of you.
So ask her questions like: "How did you discover your hobbies?". This type of question will set her heart and mind on fire.
She'll be more passionate about the conversation when you ask questions like these, because they're about her. Make sure you do this if you want her to feel dependent on you.
Things Women INSTANTLY Notice About High Value Men
-Female Psychology Thread-
1. Your grooming
While appearance isn't a big enough factor in defining your personality, the way good men groom themselves can work wonders in making them the center of attention.
Grooming habits aren't instilled in all men, which is why men of value get noticed instantly.
Men of value don't depend on high-end products like Oribe and Miller Harris to make them look good-looking.
Grooming consists of drinking water frequently to give the face a glow, showering regularly, maintaining hair, mustache and beard, etc.
Think nose hairs are just your father's business?
Think again.
From the age of 30, excessive hair starts to grow on noses and ears - admittedly, not to the same comical extent as your father - but they tend to ignore it because they think they're too young.
Businessmen pay attention. Stay as far away from hair gels as possible - straight, sticky hair isn't attractive, and women like to be able to touch your hair.
Women notice the downiness and freshness of a good man's hair.
Moisturize your skin. Skin care isn't just for girls.
If you want to look your best, take note of our suggestions and establish a daily regimen to take care of your physical health.
2. Your style
Women appreciate quality men, so when they're stylish, it's the icing on the cake.
Women immediately notice the style of good men, because it reflects their high self-esteem.
After all, they stick to the basics and don't follow every other fashion trend. One study found that 91% of Americans believe that dressing well can make a man more physically attractive than he is, while nearly two-thirds (61%) think women are more likely to marry a well-dressed man than one who isn't as well-dressed.
That's your cue, guys - take care of your style, because style is something women notice instantly in high-value men.
They'll see if you take care of the three Fs: fit, fabric and function.
You don't have to walk around in a suit to look good; the key is to wear the right cut for the right occasion.
What's more, the addition of a distinctive piece of jewelry, a decent watch, a belt or matching shoes can take your style up a few notches.
5 WEAK POINTS OF ANY WOMAN | Become Her Obsession Non Stop
- Female Psychology Thread -
There are five points on the female body that are extremely sensitive for a woman and that very few men know how to use to their advantage.
Knowing these points can help you create an atmosphere of expectation and desire in any woman, making her very attracted to you.
1. The palms
The palms become a strategic zone that subtly but powerfully stimulates desire and attraction. By holding her hand, you create a physical bridge between you that goes beyond words.
This emotionally charged gesture can convey a wide range of emotions, from interest and attraction to support and security.
It's very important to approach this movement with sensitivity and confidence, ensuring the safety of every touch. If you're insecure, you'll spoil the moment.
By holding her hand, you establish an intimate bond that will help you both feel emotionally closer. It's an effective way of showing affection and building deeper intimacy.
You can gently hold their hand while sharing a meaningful moment during an intimate conversation or while walking together, maintaining eye contact and a calm smile, strengthening the emotional bond and sense of closeness.
You can also sense their emotional reaction by feeling the warmth and texture of their hands and adapt your approach accordingly.
2. The nape of the neck
The nape of the neck, an area that many men often neglect, can become a powerful resource for increasing intimacy and passion.
A neck massage can not only relieve physical tension, but also awaken sensations of pleasure and anticipation in the woman.
It's important to approach this action with gentleness and respect, showing care and attention in every movement.
During an encounter, you can approach her from behind and start gently caressing the nape of her neck with your fingertips, using delicate, circular movements.
You can explore this area while observing his reaction and deeper breathing. This indirect physical contact can send signals of desire and emotional connection, increasing the alchemy and magnetism between the two.
Touching the nape of the neck can be a powerful tool for intensifying intimacy and creating an atmosphere charged with passion and anticipation.