The take is one I hear a lot and react to very strongly. The assumption that all PhD students *can* take a clock-in/clock-out approach is toxic and disregards the realities of marginalized grad students.
I see this take most frequently from a particular demographic and I wonder why tf the people saying this aren't investing some of that relative free time and energy into making academia more equitable rather than shaming their classmates and colleagues?
It's always interesting to see what circumstances allow a person to 9-to-5 their PhD. 🤔🧐
Also I encountered one of these "I don't know what is wrong with you; I treat my degree like a job and take holidays and weekends" types in their office on campus at 10 pm on a Sunday, so... grain of salt...

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