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Key scene of Ep26 imo; giving insight to what’s to come.
The Ep wasn’t about who’s right & who’s wrong but a display of characters inner psyche and behaviours.

وَلَاۤ اُقۡسِمُ بِالنَّفۡسِ اللَّوَّامَةِؕ
(75:2) and nay, I swear by the self-reproaching soul!
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Quran has mentioned three kinds of human self:
- Ammarah: the self that urges man to evil
- Lawwamah: the self that feels repentant at doing wrong, thinking wrong & willing wrong & reproaches man for this & the same is called conscience in modern terminology
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- Mumtmainnah: the self that feels full satisfaction at following the right path and abandoning the wrong path.

Equivalent to Freud’s psychoanalytic theory -
Id, Ego and Superego.
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According to Quran;
“No man exists in the world who may not have a faculty called conscience in him. This conscience is necessarily conscious of the good and evil, and no matter how perverted and degraded a man might be,
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his conscience always checks him on doing evil and for not doing good irrespective of the fact whether the criterion of good and evil that he had set for himself might in itself be right or wrong.
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This is an express pointer that man is not merely an animal but a moral being. He naturally can distinguish good from evil; he regards himself as responsible for the good or the evil he does;
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and even if he might feel pleased suppressing the reproaches of his conscience over the evil he has done to another, he, on the contrary, feels and demands from within that the other one who has done the same evil to him, must deserve punishment.”
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Freud proposed that the mind is divided into three components: id, ego, and superego, and that the interactions and conflicts among them create personality. Ego strength refer to the ego's ability to function despite these dueling forces.
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A person who has good ego strength can effectively manage these pressures, - healthy personality, while a person with too much or too little ego strength can be unyielding or disruptive -maladaptive personality.
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For example, an individual with an overly dominant id might become impulsive, uncontrollable, or even criminal. Such an individual acts upon their most basic urges with no concern for whether their behavior is appropriate, acceptable, or legal. (Ferit)
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On the other hand, an overly dominant superego might lead to a personality that is extremely moralistic and judgmental. A person ruled by the superego might not be able to accept anything or anyone that they perceive to be "bad" or "immoral." (Seyran)
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Halis said; “May God give all believers the strength to face the truth and reach self-realisation.”

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Self-realisation & facing your own truth is a hard journey. Embracing all of your facettes as a whole, including your dark side “the shadow” as a part of your personality,
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facing the rock bottom version of yourself, acknowledge your dysfunctional behaviors, begin to accept full responsibility for all outcomes in ur life
Realising that blaming & making excuses is futile. that it was you who created all good & all bad in ur life
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Only then you take control over your life and yourself again and instead of accepting what was unconsciously passed onto you, you start fresh, you let go of the past and creat you own new path.
Ferit hit rock bottom 💔
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Apr 1
Acting involves imitation, but not only! For any physical emotional expression, shaking hands for example, you basically need to not only be in character, but be yourself in the character’s situation. How do you feel/react in that situation?
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Then find the mental posture and muscular technique that makes your hands shake the way you want, for the reason they are supposed to be shaking. The expression of the whole body and hands must be interconnected.
What I saw was a stiff body and a voluntary trembling!
When someone expressing rage or is on the edge of a breakdown the whole world is not enough place for them, their own body is not enough place, it can’t contain their emotions inside any longer, so we witnesses a torn body about to explode in movement in the all space around them
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Mar 27
#SeyFer healing each other 🤍

- Seyran defence mechanism;
Her past trauma, trust issues and overwhelming feelings for Ferit triggers her to SUBCONSCIOUSLY push him away to avoid being hurt.
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Actions like starting arguments (harsh and provocative words) and avoiding emotional intimacy (refuse to open up) happen unconsciously - and are just an escape. Same as numbing and denying feelings to make them easier to cope with.
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The truth is; Seyran was deeply touched by Ferit love note and that triggered her fears and instinct to protect herself (harsh words & attitude)
She was also very pleased by the gifts and flowers but she denies it in front of Suna and on the phone with Ferit.
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Mar 27
Seyran, who always protected herself with her “strong” facade and hid all her feelings from F, her love as for her pain. Now she is not hiding anymore -as a start, she is showing her pain-
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heartbroken and in tears, standing there in front of Ferit, expressing how hurt she feels, bringing back all their memories, outlining that yes she was forced to marriage but she always took it seriously, that she pinned hopes on everything he did for her.
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She is actually admitting that she was never indifferent towards him and that’s what makes it hurt even more.
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Mar 19
F empty promises - here’s my opinion;
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P didn’t want to live in London with her family, she is always afraid of them knowing when she messes up, always saying “you know how my family are” meaning they are strict and severe.
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F despite the fact that he never loved P and was a womaniser, we can’t deny the fact that P succeeded to make him soft for her to be his official girlfriend but that was it.
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Feb 17
Interpretation of Ferit bond to P;

F due to all the chaos inside of him, his troubles and insecurities, relationships are just not his thing, when it comes to women, he likes to operate with no string attached, to avoid being hurt.++
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P had to make so much effort to convince him to be with her,he accepted only on his own terms. He is not fully committed-open relationship from his side-and because of his insecurities and trust issues he had to questions and know EVERYTHING. And P AGREED.++
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It was never out of jealousy, it was always because he is distrustful.
(In P mind it was jealousy and caring, but for example F never reacted or was jealous of the way P dresses up “revealing clothes; in the club, her summer dresses etc”,++
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