In an effort to make dental hygiene more appealing and easier for my neurodivergent brain, I made a few purchases today that will hopefully help with brushing and flossing more consistently!
I wanted to share in case these will help you, too.
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I already have a @getquip brush and subscription that is on autopilot for me.
I get mint toothpaste sent to my home, as well as a new toothbrush head and battery for my electric toothbrush, regularly.
This does help and I definitely recommend it if you can afford it!
The nice thing about my quip toothbrush is that it pulses/vibrates to let me know when to switch parts of my mouth, and when to stop brushing. I get distracted while I brush, so this is incredibly helpful for me. 🪥
The subscription is nice because I don’t have to remember to buy toothpaste, a new battery for the toothbrush, or a new brush head (those need to be replaced regularly, too!).
It’s automatically sent to me when it’s time! Super useful. 🙂
I’m not sponsored by Quip in any way, I’ve just used them for a long time and have found them to be really helpful.
Now the next few items were all purchased from Target! I’ll track down the links, but again, not sponsored or affiliated. Just happened to find what I needed here.
I found these flossers that are fruit smoothie flavored (?? intrigued) and have a kid-friendly handle to make them easier to grip.
This has some novelty to make it more interesting, and is designed to be easier to use. 👍🏻
I specifically chose that one because the other cinnamon toothpastes I was finding didn't contain fluoride, and in my experience, I get a lot more cavities when I don't use a fluoride toothpaste. 😬
But if that's not your thing, there are other options out there for you!
This came at the recommendation of a friend. These are disposable mini-brushes that don't require rinsing and come with the toothpaste already on them!
These are for my desk, nightstand, and bag. For when I forget to brush and/or am struggling to get to the bathroom to do it. Removing additional steps will make this easier to use just in case I need it.
I'll also be stashing some of the flossers in other rooms, to make it more likely that I'll grab one and use it! 🌟
Lastly, I'm very sensitive to the lights I have in my bathroom.
On days I'm overstimulated, I use this nightlight — with a "vintage" style lightbulb so it's a more yellow glow — to keep the lighting softer and more tolerable.
Let's be clear about this. Transgender people with depression and autism already ARE being denied hormones and surgery. We already HAVE BEEN fighting for the right to access affirming interventions.
Don't let these mandates confuse you. We've been fighting this for a long time.
Plenty of neurodivergent trans people have had to fight tooth and nail to get access to affirming care, without having their mental health weaponized and used against them.
I'm one of them.
Years ago, I shared my own story of trying to access hormones and top surgery, but being denied by care providers — in the San Francisco Bay Area!! — who felt that my mental health was not stable enough to pursue transition.
First, I eat a snack that I can tolerate (usually something with a predictable and easy texture, like yogurt, apple sauce, or ice cream) to help stabilize my mood.
I want to talk about the flip side of what is possible when fat people have access to competent, unbiased health care.
Here’s what happened when I visited my “health at every size” informed primary care doctor earlier this year.
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🛑 I want to first include some content notes for: discussion of eating disorders, health (I will try to avoid numbers), and discussing medical fatphobia in broad terms.
Take care of yourselves first and foremost!
When I visited my doctor earlier this year, I was at one of the worst places I’d ever been.
My cholesterol, blood pressure, and heart rate were all pretty high.
My depression was persistent and relentless despite managing it well in the past with my meds.
Things that can trigger detransition that aren’t just regret.
Adding a little nuance with a thread. 🧵
Eating disorders. Changes in one’s body, especially distribution of fat, can be a huge trigger for some trans folks and may cause them to suspend their transition.
Pressure for a binary transition. If non-binary folks are pressured to “prove” their legitimacy by adopting a binary presentation, they may take steps to undo or soften the effects of their medical transition to align more with their non-binary identity.
There is a difference between reluctant permission to be ourselves and loving permission.
The former we do in theory because we know from our healing work that we’re “supposed” to embrace authenticity.
Reluctant permission is a step. But not a destination.
Loving permission is different. We give ourselves loving permission to be our whole selves because we know we deserve it — every self, from child to present day, deserves it.
Loving permission says, “I am worthy of showing up just as I am.”
Loving permission says, “This is my right as a human being on this earth.”
Loving permission says, “All of me is welcome here — not just theoretically, but as a complete truth.”