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May 9, 2023 11 tweets 4 min read Read on X
We've seen how Trump addresses sexual assault. He calls women liars & claims the allegations are politically-motivated. He encouraged a whole crowd to mock Christine Blasey Ford's memory. I don't know why we act as if we don't have ample evidence of what he's likely to do. Image
It should be a seismic event. It will not be, for many reasons, one of which is that the media is less interested in the details of the rape allegation/civil trial than they are in the ~tantalizing~ viciousness with which Trump will respond to the verdict. Image
We cared about Trump's alleged assaults in Oct, 2016. Then we forgot.
We cared during the advent of "MeToo" in Nov, 2017. We forgot.
We cared during the Kavanaugh hearings in Oct, 2018. We forgot.
We cared during election time in Oct, 2020.
Then we forgot again. Image
Here are better Q's than "what will Trump say?"
1. Why does this story carry so little impact & is the media partially responsible?
2. What does this say about what Trump has done? The scope of his malevolence?
3. What does this say about how much we care about sexual assault?
1. Those of us convinced by evidence provided by 20+ alleged victims, as well as Trump's own words, long ago reached the same conclusion as the civil jury. We are also numb after his malevolence re: COVID & democracy.

Interpersonal violence gets diminished against this scale. . Image
1 (cont. . .): Those who adore Trump have been radicalized against doctors, scientists, educators, & even flight attendants. Science. History. There is no truth there. They always believed the women were liars & I fail to see how a civil verdict moves this needle. Image
1 (cont. . .): Yes, the media is partially--tho not fully--responsible for our response. The media has the power to craft narratives. Yet they often choose to locate drama elsewhere

To illustrate: Here is a rough google trend chart of 2023: "Trump sexual assault" vs. "Biden age" Image
2. During Trump, we were bombarded with not only scandals--but scandals involving real--often systemic--harm to multiple *groups* of people, not just individuals. White supremacy. Tortured children. Lies about disease while thousands died. Fomenting violence against protesters. Image
2 (cont. . .) Anyone who has ever studied psychology, neuroscience, or trauma/stress would be able to conclude that such a constant onslaught of violence & horror would create an overall "dampening" effect on one's neurological, physiological, & psychological responses.
Now, to answer #3. The most painful question. There are too many confounding variables. If COVID or the insurrection hadn't happened, would we care more? I can't say.

But I will posit a guess: we do not care enough. For example: "woke" mapped over "sexual assault" in 2023: Image
Finally, I will say that one outlet's coverage of the civil trial against Trump has been exemplary: @NewsHour. They devoted several segments to covering the trial as a top news story. They have also interviewed experts on aspects of psychology + rape, including victim-blaming.

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We've also never had a real convo about the fact that Biden really did try to go as progressive as he possibly could & not only did the center punish him, the left punished him too. B/c it was never enough. These people aren't just a curse on Dems. They're a curse on progress.
If you actually go out & talk to voters, you will never hear the end of this sentiment: "Biden campaigned as a moderate; went too far left as POTUS." I'm talking about people who voted for Harris. It's what they believe.
Here's the thing: Maybe people wouldn't have this perception if more progressives had actually stood by Biden. Cheered him on. "Yay for progress!" But these narcissistic chuckleheads didn't do that, did they? No they just complained "not good enough."
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This week I wrote an 11 page summary of violence my 6-yr-old stepson witnessed. I provided this to his biological mother. The bio parents each gave their accounts to the therapist. My stepson, based on my testimony, provided by bio mom, got enrolled into DV-specific therapy.
It is such a strange, horrific experience. To document one's own abuse so extensively for another woman. In this case, my partner's ex-wife. The rewards can feel so small. But therapy is not small. I told the truth. To other adults. A child will not live in that darkness alone.
That's how I got separated from all of my things. I had a whole escape plan. But I was so scared for my stepkids. I made a calculation. I asked their bio mom, "Will you use your legal power to put them in therapy?" She said, "Yes." Then I told her, "Ok, I'll give you everything."
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Extreme interpersonal psychological abuse is, I am coming to understand, something we don't at all have a good cultural handle on and also much more frequent than I would have previously assumed.
The more I talk about psychological abuse--and I am cautious in speaking about it--the more people contact me & I realize it's something that has affected many lives. I wish I had been better educated on the matter.
I remember I texted a friend this summer and I was like, "Is this real?" And he was like, "Yes, it's fucking real and you need to get the fuck out of there. Now." He was my calmest, most analytical friend. Which is why I texted him. I didn't think he would be worried. But he was. Image
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Just as a matter of shared truth/history: there was a period in the Summer of 2024 when Black Democrats were begging "activists," et al. to vote for Kamala Harris for the good of Black Americans & others who would be especially vulnerable under Trump. They were met w/ racism.
This is something that happened. Because it happened, we should acknowledge & document it, at the very least.
We can get into the details of the Israel vs. Hamas war, which, perhaps, could be more aptly named Hamas vs. Israel, given the belligerent party. Any reasonable person should see, however, that it was a long, complicated conflict over which the U.S. did not have that much control
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Nov 29, 2025
My mom had been pressuring me to try to engage w/ some community & her focus was on the Orthodox church. I told her I'd prefer to visit the Reform synagogue close by, which welcomes people of all backgrounds.

(The Orthodox church here is absolutely lovely and always welcomes me too, in the most wonderful way; but it's just not the same kind of thing, with the same kind of community activities; There's other Orthodox related stuff in my history that I won't get into; & I'm independently interested in learning more about Judaism).

So anyway my mom's happy about the idea of synagogue attendance, but did tease me when I snuck away during this convo. "YOU HAVE TO KNOW THIS STORY IF YOU'RE GOING TO GO TO SYNAGOGUE MAG!" She is probably right.

For the record!, my dad started giving his historically-informed 15 minute lecture on Uriah for an entirely different reason. We were watching a BBC adaptation of David Copperfield & one of the characters is named Uriah. Afterwards my dad was like, "Do we KNOW the story of Uriah the Hittite?"

My mom said to my dad, 'I know the story, but I'd like to hear you tell it again" and then snuggled down in her blanket for the long-haul. Knowing my Dad I already began to creep away, lol. His lectures are great, but it was like 11:00 at night. This is when my mother, probably appropriately, shamed me. I'll have to ask my father to tell the story again.
These kinds of interactions/transitions are the story of my life, lol. For example: Image
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I'm interested in learning more about Judaism for many reasons, but a major one is that the closest thing I've ever had to a true spiritual experience is the music of Leonard Cohen. Cohen incorporates themes from many spiritualities in his music. I would like to learn more about his references to Judaism more specifically, out of intellectual interest, as well as to understand the feeling of spirituality I have experienced. His music opened a door to a broader curiosity I am interested in exploring.
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The Arab peoples in Gaza and the West Bank are not more indigenous to the area than the Jewish people of that same region. This isn't a commentary on gov't policy. (The Settlers are bad). I just don't know why we accept "indigenity" as a truthful premise when it's not one.
People who practiced Judaism were in that region before people who practiced Christianity and both those people were there before the practice of Islam. This is a factual timeline. It should not be disputed. Or morally-repurposed. It's just what the timeline is.
I am getting more and more frustrated by the levels of untruth we accept. For apparently "moral" (?) reasons. Why do we accept "The indigenous people of Palestine" as a description in opposition to Jewish populations when that is just clearly false?
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