An R-squared of .2, so a Pearson's R of about .4, is a moderate-to-large correlation per Cohen's guidelines by the way.
Effect size conventions are entirely arbitrary. Simply derived from what is common in a field. You can never look at an r or d and know from the size if it's meaningful or not without understanding the practical significance of it.
Also from Cohen:
Also funny in the whole "small correlation" debacle is that small effects are supposed to be basically indistinguishable by sight.
Many people confused that because the dots on the chart don't pop out as a clear patten that it means there is no mathematical relationship.
In any case, understanding how meaningful the size of an effect is can only be done within the context of your field and further with a good understanding of what you are measuring.
So going back to this chart as an example (and ignoring the issues unrelated to interpreting effect sizes more generally):
How many additional homicides is explained by a change in X? It might be a "small" relationship that represents thousands of murders.
To use another recent example: the effect of antidepressants on depression is very small.
Yet, across a population this may represent tens and thousands of people who don't commit suicide, or who don't leave the workplace, due ro depression.
There is a name for this paradox in statistics where small relationships have large implications (particularly on a population level, but also occasionally on individual or interpersonal levels).
Obesity and many health outcomes are like this.
For a more recent take on this, Daniel Lakens' textbook (perhaps one of the more influential living statisticians today):
I see incels say this often: "of course I hate women, it's because they don't like me."
Actually I don't even think it's entirely wrong. I am sure if their life trajectory were full of good experiences with women they would have arrived at a different place.
But this is a good example of how the ideology is rooted in the personal. There is no "scientific blackpill." These aren't logical or rational beliefs that they arrive at. The whole thing is fundamentally driven by emotion.
This also means that the kind of extreme misogyny and red/black pill ideology you see online is an instant tell that someone hasn't been especially good with women.
Here is some recent data on relationships and dating.
Between 2020 and 2022, the number of single women between age 18-29 increased. For men it remained stable, but more men are still single in this age group. 🧵
Are these singles "dating" anyone on the side? Probably not. Most singles report not being involved with anyone.
And single women report less interest in dating than men.
Why are they single? Women, much more than men, say they have other priorities.
But men and women report having trouble finding someone at the same rate.
I was asked what advice I would give to young men. A lot of the responses to this and elsewhere in the thread said: "men should be afraid of marriage."
Here is a thread on if you should be afraid and why young men struggle.🧵
First, I like Richard's response to this. It is a complex issue. Marriage is not something to take lightly and it does carry risks. No one can promise you that your marriage will make it.
I have said in the past, I also think it is reasonable and relatable for older men, who have had relationships and who have been through divorces, to be hesitant to marry a second time.
I think the fear is a bit less reasonable for very young men without these experiences.