I went to a PRC/CPC when I was pregnant during my 1st semester in college. When I walked in, I was greeted by very kind ladies who gave me a free pregnancy test. They sat me & my boyfriend down & told us the test was negative.
They told us to come back a week later to have another test just in case. A week later & it was positive.
They set up an ultrasound for me, gave me info on adoption, the pregnancy/parenting classes they had & how to get free mom/baby supplies. They talked about support for me at college & if I needed help telling my fam. I was also given a list of obgyns & pediatricians in the area.
I had my ultrasound, where I saw my son Theo for the first time at 6 weeks gestation. We saw his heartbeat & were guided on what his body was doing at that moment.
The nurse told us how my body would change in the coming weeks & how my son’s body would change & grow as well. Not once did I receive judgement for being 18 & pregnant. Not once did I receive malicious comments about being unwed or a new freshman in college.
The clinic called me a few times a month to check up on me & see how things were going. Asked if I needed anymore help & if there was anything they could do for me & my child.
Their website explicitly stated they did not refer to or perform abortions.
They never once lied about what they did or lied about any information that I was given.
I was treated with respect & kindness.
The clinic gave me the first bit of professional help that I needed before I had the chance to find an obgyn.
And they were essential to my journey through pregnancy.
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Blanket training usually involves corporal punishment. So I don’t give a flying fuck what’s sinful or not. Hitting/hurting your baby is not ok. Period. Not to mention, babies cannot learn true self control. They’re brains aren’t developed enough.
And if the baby does end up staying on the blanket, it’s not because they learned self control or have learned to obey. They learn that their attachment figure is not secure and not safe. They react out of fear and a lack of safety.
Lastly, teaching kids to “obey,” is so incredibly harmful in & of itself. Teaching children to blindly follow someone is scary & won’t help them as an adult. We should never treat kids as sub-humans who aren’t autonomous beings with the right to boundaries & their own body.