I think I'm ready to talk about 8th house and pluto synastry *sighs*
Okay 8th house synastry/pluto is basically very painful I even think it's more painful than 12th house synastry, and I think the most painful but soul binding synastry is moon in 8th synastry and venus in 8th (to a lesser extent)
8th house synastry is the definition of power playing, when someones sun, merc and venus dropped in my 8th house I was shocked by how good they could pick up on my dark ways like it's absolutely nothing I'd feel like I want to kill this person but let's fuck first
The difference between 12th and 8th is that in 12th synastry the planet person would see the 12th house person's blind spots things they didn't even know they've hidden while the planet person in 8th house synastry would try to find what they knowingly hide.
8th house energy is soooo dense that in a group of people, people around them would tell them " get a room already!" especially if the luminaries are involved it's so tense that even the air becomes stiff, when you touch each other it feels like every hair in your body stands up
I personally would love my therapist to have their planets drop in my 8th house because they will dig deep and uncover all the toxic patterns that I have woven in my mind, in a relationship it's more of will I unravel this toxicity within me or actually go through this pain
Moon in 8th house synastry is the hardest to actually break especially if the moon person is a water or earth sign, the moon person stalks the 8th house person and has feelings of extreme hate and extreme love/obsseion depending on the moons maturity
Moon in 8th house synastry can indicate enemies between two people because the moon person's feelings of extremity is shown with the 8th house person this can be the synastry of deep jealousy, revenge, distaste and even disgust.
Moon in 8th house in synastry is can also swing to extreme urges to posses, fuck, control or know the 8th house persons deep sexual desires, sexual traumas the NEED to be intimate no matter how dark it gets.
The 8th house person may sense that the moon person wants to go deeper but the 8th house person would test how much they can affect the moon person how dark can they get 😈, they might have a day where they easily have intimate talks about their trauma which makes the moon happy
The 8th house person is in control and moon wants to break that they want the 8th house person to feel these intense deep feelings that the moon person feels they want to know that the 8th house person is as encapsulated as them.
This is when the moon person would play games, like ignoring the 8th house person, trying to say deep hurtful things to the 8th house person and because the 8th house person is familiar with this energy they won't play into it or if they do they retaliate by doing-
Something that makes the moon person feel absolutely powerless in their pain, this continues on and on until they both either grow from the games, moon person wants to know more 8th house person likes the attention and the control moon person hates this and retaliates
This cycle continues going further deeper darker until the relationship is too broken to deal with. Or until both of them cut the bullshit and the games and actually merge and work through their toxic ways that they both deeply understand instead of using it against each other
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And since its 8th house synastry deals with extremes, one person might be extremely into the other while the other person might be disinterested or even indifferent it's all or nothing between the two
This can make the relationship become a little one sided depending on the type of bonds and aspects they have.
Planets that aren't as sensitive such as sun mars mercury jupiter saturn into your 8th might make you feel more obsessed than them, they might feel the energy but stand on their independent selves
You can never hide from the person you have 12th house synastry with, especially if you are the house person the planet person really sees through you things you can't even see that's why I get weary of the sign that is in my 12th house
I know this because I have been the planet person twice(well planets cause I have 5 planets in the same sign) and I could see through them almost easily, I'd get insights about them in my dreams etc
Don't like this synastry cause it's honestly uncomfortable for the house person and tiring for the planet person