This drama simultaneously is so good that I don't want to shut up about it, but also so comforting and enjoyable that I found myself not wanting to talk about it.
More and more frequently (myself included) the discussion on bad endings vs happy endings has been in the mix - most of the time showing it's face after a story ends with a sad conclusion.
That being said, this drama is a prime example of the power of a good, happy ending.
This drama is low conflict, has an incredibly healthy main couple, doesn't take itself too seriously, and yet is wildly entertaining.
There's a common argument in the BE/HE debate that the BE is better because it sticks with you longer due to it's emotional weight. And while that argument does have truth to it, what it doesn't take it into account is rewatchability.
A story that is as welcoming, enjoyable, and comforting as something like Love is Sweet is a story people will return to time and time again. Therefore it's longevity and endurance shows itself in a different way than the long lasting emotional trauma of a BE.
Instead of the story acting like a scar that a person has to carry forever, the story acts like a familiar friend a person can talk to after a difficult day. Something that they know and trust and can rely on.
Just this evening my friend told me that after going through a difficult season of illness, she is rewatching a favorite show of hers for the fifth time.
This story has stuck with her just as long as any of these BE's have but for a very different reason.
Stories like the one my friend loves, or like Love is Sweet, aren't any less impactful, important, or valuable just because they don't put you through an emotional meat-grinder.
In fact, having them always in arms reach, ready to play when a person is at their most vulnerable, makes them far more valuable than something a person can only stomach to watch once and is furious about any time they think about it later.
Love is Sweet, without hesitation, will be a drama I will always have ready on hand. It's a story I would watch time and time again, and it's a story I would recommend to anybody who needs comfort from a story during a difficult time.
That in and of itself makes it powerful.
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Yuan Shuai and Jiang Jun have one of the healthiest relationships ever put to screen and I will forever love them for that, but let's dive into why theirs stands apart when compared to other fictional couples.
1) Respect
We often see fictional couples that love and admire each other, but don't actually respect each other. This is tremendously common but not often considered in the world of fictional characters. Examples include situations like...
I've been seeing a lot on the TL saying Jang Uk only kissed Bu-yeon because he either thought she was Mu-deok or because he already knew she was Naksu - but guys I don't think either is true...
The whole episode was about Jang Uk learning to open up. Before, he had held on to Mu-deok with an iron fist, refusing to mourn her or accept her death.
But Park Jin encouraged him to be open to the possibility, and encouraged him to finally let her go.
(Post about the significance of this conversation here:
The whole dialogue of the fish sauce was so good though. 🧵
Jang Uk and the Boys (a good band name option for anybody looking) are all expecting the rice cake to taste horrible. But really it's not about the ingredients, it's the expectation. #AlchemyOfSoulsS2Ep4#AlchemyOfSouls
Whatever is or isn't in the rice cake doesn't matter. What matters is what you make of it.
What we're seeing is a clear shift in Jang Uk because for the first time in 3 years, he's open to the idea of something new.
He's not expecting the rice cake to taste horrible and he's willing to open himself up to the possibility of actually enjoying it, even if it wasn't what he originally thought he wanted.
Reborn Rich is a really good example of people assuming romance in non-romance stories is unnecessary – when in most cases is not the romance itself that’s the issue, it’s how it’s written.
While it’s difficult to predict how this story will end, some recent articles I’ve seen about the romantic relationship subplot between Do Jun and Min Young being unnecessary made me compelled to touch on the topic.