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Everyone knows women don’t like “nice guys.”

But why exactly? 

Let's dive into the psychology of nice guys & why women despise them: Image
Women don’t like nice men.

But they do like kind men. 

These are two different words that people use interchangeably.
Nice means you’re agreeable, polite & pleasant to be around. 

It's superficial behavior. Like being politically correct.  

Kind means you’re generous, considerate & helpful. 

Kindness implies a deeper level of sincerity, whereas niceness is surface level.
Kindness is a trait that reflects a person's character over time. 

Niceness is a persona. We act nice around people when we’ve just met them.

It helps establish rapport. 

Here’s the 3 main reasons why women don’t like nice guys 👇
1) Imposter

Women are great at smelling bullshit. 

If you’re acting nice & superficial, they can tell. 

They want a man who’s comfortable being himself around others. 

Not someone who’s hiding their true personality. Image
2) Protection

Women are looking for men who make them feel safe & protected. 

Nice guys are agreeable & passive. 

They don’t signal those important qualities women are looking for. Image
3) Boring 

Women want to master their men. But once they master them, they get bored. 

Nice guys have already been mastered. They’re boring & women aren’t interested.

Women need conflict out of their partner. Nice guys can’t provide that. Image
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Men need self-respect. 

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What exactly does “dark side” mean?

And why do women want it?

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Your dark side is the part of you that is capable of violence, cruelty, & destructive behavior.

As opposed to your light side, which is capable of peace, kindness & compassionate behavior.
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I’ve met many gold diggers in my life.

They all have the same 6 overlapping traits:
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What is a shit test?

Why are women doing it & how should you respond?

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Some men will create an entire personality just to sleep with women.

She’s testing you to see if you’re bullshitting her.
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“Is that the line you say to all the girls?”

If you give her a clever response, you’re still in the game.

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