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How to elevate oral pleasure, creating a more fulfilling experience for both you and your partner?

P.S: Remember to prioritise open communication, respect boundaries, and ensure mutual consent throughout.
Communication & Consent:

Before engaging in any sexual activity, have an open and honest conversation with your partner about their desires, boundaries, and comfort levels.

Always make sure you have your partner's explicit consent before engaging in any sexual activity.
Hygiene:

Good hygiene is essential for both partners. Make sure you and your partner have showered or freshened up beforehand. This will help create a more comfortable and enjoyable experience for both of you.
Build anticipation:

Create a sensual atmosphere by setting the mood.

- Dim the lights
- Play soft music
- Use scented candles
- Sensual treats and drinks
Bonus Ways to build anticipation:

Verbal communication:

Whispering naughty or enticing words into your partner's ear can be incredibly arousing. Describe what you plan to do to them or share how much you desire to pleasure them.
Blindfold play:

Consider using a blindfold to enhance the anticipation. Blindfolding your partner can heighten their senses and increase their focus on the sensations they'll experience during oral sex.

It also adds an element of surprise and suspense.
Tease and delay ( DON'T RUSH LIKE you were hungry from ages 🥲 )

When you finally engage in oral sex, don't rush into immediate direct stimulation.

Begin with gentle kisses, soft licks, or light touches around the genital area, teasing and building anticipation.
Talk about fantasies:

Before engaging in oral sex, discuss each other's fantasies and desires.

Sharing these intimate thoughts can build anticipation and excitement. You can incorporate elements of your partner's fantasies.
NOW, coming to the main part, how to ?

Start with foreplay:
Oral sex doesn't have to be the first thing you do.

Engage in foreplay to help your partner become aroused and ready for oral stimulation.

- Kissing
- Touching
- Caressing

are great ways to build intimacy and desire.
Begin with gentle kisses:

Start by kissing your partner's inner thighs, stomach, and around the genital area.

These soft, teasing kisses can help build anticipation and arousal.
Use your hands:

Incorporate your hands into the experience by caressing your partner's body, thighs, and buttocks.

You can use your hands to stimulate other erogenous zones while giving oral sex, such as gently fondling their breasts or rubbing their nipples.
Start with light licks and kisses:

Begin with light, gentle licks and kisses around the genital area.
Explore:
- Outer lips (labia majora)
- Inner lips (labia minora)
- Clit hood

with the tip of your tongue, alternating between soft kisses and light licks.
Focus on the clitoral area:

The clitoris is a highly sensitive area that can provide intense pleasure for many individuals.

Gently stimulate the clitoral hood and the area around it with your tongue, using slow, circular motions or side-to-side movements.
Use varying techniques:

Explore different techniques to provide varied sensations.

You can try using your tongue to flick or trace patterns on the clitoris, or gently suck on it for added stimulation.

Pay attention to your partner's reactions ( what they enjoy the most. )
Certainly! When it comes to licking during oral sex, there are various techniques you can try to provide different sensations and maximize pleasure for your partner. Here are some insights:
Flat tongue:

With your mouth open and your tongue relaxed, use a flat, wide tongue to cover a larger surface area.

This technique can provide gentle, broad stimulation and is great for starting off or for more sensitive moments.
Up and down:

Use the tip of your tongue to trace up-and-down motions along the length of the clitoral shaft or the opening of the vagina.

Experiment with different speeds and pressures to find what feels best for your partner.
Side to side:

Instead of using up-and-down motions, you can try using your tongue to move from side to side horizontally.

This technique can provide a different type of sensation and stimulate different areas.
Circular motions:

Use the tip of your tongue to trace slow, circular motions around the clitoris or the opening of the vagina. Adjust the size and speed of the circles to see what your partner responds to best.
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Flicking:

Use the tip of your tongue to deliver quick, light flicks to the clitoral hood or the clitoris itself.

This technique can provide a more intense and direct sensation.

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Relax and enjoy:

Remember that intimacy is about connection and pleasure.

Relax, enjoy the experience, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

When you're fully present and engaged, it will enhance the pleasure for both you and your partner ❤️❤️
Aftercare:

Afterward, take the time to cuddle, provide reassurance, and engage in post-sexual intimacy.

This can help create a sense of emotional closeness and deepen the bond between you and your partner.

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