The church I grew up in wasn’t perfect, but I didn’t live in fear of the rapture. I knew Catholics were Christians. I didn’t think people of other faiths were going to hell. When I realized I was gay I never prayed for God to change me - just the homophobic world we live in.
I was taught that to love and serve my neighbour was THE highest calling for a follower of Jesus; that my neighbour was anyone God put in my path; that men and women were equals; that science and faith were not automatically opposed to one another; that Jesus was Jewish.
I sang “O Canada” and “God Save the Queen” in school, and some kids didn’t and that was totally ok. Being a Christian had to do with the way I lived in and contributed to my country - which included people different from me - it wasn’t the same thing as being Canadian.
I knew my parents were more wary of Christians who spent a lot of time talking about sin and judgement than they were wary of non-Christians.
My church taught me that God loved me, and everyone else , though we were all sinners, and Jesus came to save not condemn sinners.
The biggest error I grew up believing was that “most Christians are having the same experience of church as me.”
I’m so grateful to my parents, clergy, teachers and members of that congregation for sparing me the trauma so many Christians have experienced and are now inflicting
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For every DM from a troll I post, I get another (which I don’t share publicly ) from someone who, because of my posts and those of other loving Christians I engage with, are beginning to not be afraid of God; are falling in love with the Gospel and are willing to trust Jesus.
I get messages from parents rethinking their rejection of their LGBTQ kids; or pastors in conservative churches looking for support as they wrestle with a theology they can no longer uphold.
I get DMs from people who reach out to ask if it’s possible that God doesn’t hate them
I get emails and letters sent to my church asking for help in reconciling what they’ve been taught is scripture’s condemnation of homosexuality with their deep belief in the goodness of the LGBTQ people they know and their desire to accept them, while being terrified of hell.
So, @desktopmetaphor rightly pointed out a few things in a tweet about The Little Mermaid:
The original story was written by a gay man.
The lyrics for the animated film were written by a gay man who died of AIDS.
The character of Ursula was based on drag queen icon Devine
So while the Gospel Coalition’s hysteria over Little Mermaid being a nefarious attempt to push a trans agenda is more indicative of their prejudice and hate than it is the intentions of the creators, it is still important to recognize….
….that an openness to difference, a desire for authenticity and acceptance and a willingness to live one’s truth boldly and unapologetically DO underpin “The Little Mermaid” and have resulted in the creation of countless stories and forms of art that have delighted millions….
I always find it so bizarre that people who seem to be concerned with the purity and righteousness of Christianity will do things like message strangers to call them "faggot".
So a lot of people seem perplexed by this guys statement. How can he be homophobic while detailing homosexual behaviour.
This isn’t anything new and many gay men have encountered this….
Dear Hysterical Over Rainbow Flags claiming that "The LGBT cult has stolen the rainbow from God", some history....
Since at least the late 15th Century the rainbow symbol has been used by religious and social activists to draw attention to their causes....
In the 16th Century it was used during the German Peasants’ War to signify the promise of social change.
In the 18th Century, Thomas Paine, author of "The Rights of Man" advocated for the adoption of the rainbow flag as a universal symbol for identifying neutral ships at sea.
The flag has been flown by Buddhists in Sri Lanka since the late 19th Century as a unifying emblem of faith. It is used in India annually on January 31st to commemorate the passing of the spiritual leader Meher Baba. Since 1961, it has been used by international peace movements.
It's strange, how often someone identifying as "Christian" will end a tweet to me with "Repent!"
True, Jesus begins his ministry with a general call to repentance. He does denounce entire cities for failing to repent. He does pronounce "woe" on some religious leaders, but...
...not once in the Gospel accounts (with the sole exception of the adulterous woman in John - which was a later addition to the text) does Jesus ever reprove sinners directly. He eats with them. He gets to know them. He engages them where they are. He does not scream "Repent!"
That's because for Jesus, repentance doesn't begin with condemnation, but with invitation - showing people an alternative way that frees, heals and assures the sinner a place in the community. It is not a new way imposed by threats but offered with love.
Whether you’re a woman standing up to misogyny and patriarchy; a member of the LGBTQ+ community facing down homophobia and transphobia; a person of colour calling out and opposing racism; a member of any disempowered community fighting bigotry and demanding Justice and equality…
…know that every time you refuse to hide, lessen yourself, or be silent; every time you show up, speak up and refuse to shut up; every time you are simply and unapologetically yourself despite condemnation and threats against you for being who you are….
…you shine like a candle flame of light for someone terrified of the dark; you resound for someone like a harmonious chord in a discordant din of noise; you appear to someone thirsting in the desert like an oasis of cool water.