4 Sobering reminders from real data about how we actually spend our time 👇

🔘 Total Time You Have With Your Children

Important Reminder:
• Be present, even and especially during the most challenging times.

🔘 Total Time You Have With Your Parents

Important Reminder:
• Honor the limited time you have with your family.

🔘 Total Time You Have With Your Friends

Important Reminder:
• Choose the friends you share your time with wisely.

🔘 Hours of the Day Spent Alone

Important Reminder:
• Embody the kind of person you'd want to be around.

As the source name--American Time Use Survey--might suggest, the data doesn't appear to survey cultures outside the Western region and how they may spend time differently.

Especially when it comes to family time.
A big shout out to @SahilBloom for introducing this data and thinking last year.

It sat with me so long I had to visualize it through my own lens.

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We must all suffer from one of two pains:
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On the back said:
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I think about that a lot.

Especially when it comes to creating online -- something I wanted to start 10 years ago.
But didn't.

Valid reasons:
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Less valid reasons:
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• fear of judgment
• thinking "someday"

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