Decades of marriage have taught me valuable life lessons that no degree could ever provide.
Here some lessons that helped me:
Couples who easily throw around the idea of divorce whenever they face challenges are unlikely to have lasting relationships.
It's no wonder relationships, 10 years plus, have a 65% success rate.
Our culture seems to view divorce as a backup plan whenever things get tough.
Instead of facing discomfort, many individuals opt to walk away from their partners.
However, I have learned some valuable lessons over the years that has helped couples maintain a happy and… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
1. Learn how to communicate effectively:
When addressing dislikes, it's essential to keep emotions under control.
Humans are imperfect, and they will make mistakes.
Holding grudges against them won't help, but expressing how their mistakes made you feel and setting… https://t.co/NAv8rTZf7Qtwitter.com/i/web/status/1…
2. Keep personal problems private:
Avoid involving friends or family in your arguments.
Seek counseling if needed, as it provides a better way to mediate issues.
3: Avoid holding grudges:
Be dependable to each other and keep the promises you made.
Holding grudges can encourage disrespect and hinder the growth of the relationship.
4. Keep the spark alive:
Don't stop doing the things you did while dating, such as getting dressed up, going out together without the kids, and engaging in adventurous activities.
Maintain those sexy conversations and role-play to keep the excitement alive.
5. Surround yourself with good friends:
Build a brotherhood of strong, supportive friends for men, and encourage wives to have supportive friends as well.
Having a circle of friends helps maintain a sense of purpose and handle life's monotonous moments.
Marriage is a joint effort between a man and women.
Top five tips:
•Communication
•Don’t involve family & friends
•Don’t hold grudges
•Don’t stop dating
•Surround yourself with good friends
Thank you for reading!
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Marriage is team work that requires continuous effort, reflection, and prioritization.
When relationships hit rough patches, it’s tempting to look outward for solutions, but real change starts with a shift in focus and intention.
If I had 90 days to fix my marriage, I’d approach each day with a carefully structured schedule to ensure I was actively contributing to the health of my relationship.
Here's the detailed, hour-by-hour plan I’d follow:
Morning: Starting the Day with Purpose
Each morning, I’d wake up two hours earlier, before the kids or the husband to focus on myself before the day begins.
This time would be used for a workout to stay physically and mentally strong, as well as for any personal work I need to accomplish.
By handling these tasks early, I’d free up more time and energy to focus on my husband and family throughout the day.
Remember prioritize your husband above the children.