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Aug 3, 2023 11 tweets 4 min read Read on X
Decades of marriage have taught me valuable life lessons that no degree could ever provide.

Here some lessons that helped me: Image
Couples who easily throw around the idea of divorce whenever they face challenges are unlikely to have lasting relationships. 

It's no wonder relationships, 10 years plus, have a 65% success rate.
Our culture seems to view divorce as a backup plan whenever things get tough.

Instead of facing discomfort, many individuals opt to walk away from their partners.

However, I have learned some valuable lessons over the years that has helped couples maintain a happy and… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
1. Learn how to communicate effectively: 

When addressing dislikes, it's essential to keep emotions under control. 

Humans are imperfect, and they will make mistakes. 

Holding grudges against them won't help, but expressing how their mistakes made you feel and setting… https://t.co/NAv8rTZf7Qtwitter.com/i/web/status/1…
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2. Keep personal problems private: 

Avoid involving friends or family in your arguments.

Seek counseling if needed, as it provides a better way to mediate issues. Image
3: Avoid holding grudges: 

Be dependable to each other and keep the promises you made.

Holding grudges can encourage disrespect and hinder the growth of the relationship. Image
4. Keep the spark alive: 

Don't stop doing the things you did while dating, such as getting dressed up, going out together without the kids, and engaging in adventurous activities.

Maintain those sexy conversations and role-play to keep the excitement alive. Image
5. Surround yourself with good friends: 

Build a brotherhood of strong, supportive friends for men, and encourage wives to have supportive friends as well. 

Having a circle of friends helps maintain a sense of purpose and handle life's monotonous moments.
Marriage is a joint effort between a man and women.

Top five tips:

•Communication
•Don’t involve family & friends
•Don’t hold grudges
•Don’t stop dating
•Surround yourself with good friends
Thank you for reading! 

I've coached many couples who have transformed their relationships by applying these tips and more. 

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What is her body language telling you…

That her words never will.

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Most men think women are great liars.

They aren’t completely wrong.

But here’s the truth: 

women actually tell you everything
if you know how to read their body language.
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Her words may say one thing, but her body will betray what she really feels.

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Do you have viewpoints that go against the grain? 

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They crushed college, they have nice jobs.

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They do what they’re told. 

They’re easily impressionable. 

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Before you commit, notice these 11 signs women can’t hide. Image
Warning 1

Poor taste in friends.

Her friends are a reflection of herself.

If her friends are all single, drinkers, or carry bad habits, she will have them too.

Bonus point:

No male friends.

She’s smart enough to know that male “friends” only want to sleep with her.
Warning 2

She ghosts you when she’s upset.
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Bonus:

She can admit she’s wrong.

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Phase 1 

Idealism or Wishful Thinking

This is when it feels like a fantasy. 

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Especially since yes, I’m saying it
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In the early years, I did what a lot of women do:

I got caught up in the noise.

Kids. 
Chores. 
Routines. 
Schedules.
All of it.

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I’d plan surprise nights just for us. 

Sometimes I’d wait for him with nothing on but a smile. 

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Adventure.

A pulse.

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