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Aug 3, 2023 11 tweets 4 min read Read on X
Decades of marriage have taught me valuable life lessons that no degree could ever provide.

Here some lessons that helped me: Image
Couples who easily throw around the idea of divorce whenever they face challenges are unlikely to have lasting relationships. 

It's no wonder relationships, 10 years plus, have a 65% success rate.
Our culture seems to view divorce as a backup plan whenever things get tough.

Instead of facing discomfort, many individuals opt to walk away from their partners.

However, I have learned some valuable lessons over the years that has helped couples maintain a happy and… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
1. Learn how to communicate effectively: 

When addressing dislikes, it's essential to keep emotions under control. 

Humans are imperfect, and they will make mistakes. 

Holding grudges against them won't help, but expressing how their mistakes made you feel and setting… https://t.co/NAv8rTZf7Qtwitter.com/i/web/status/1…
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2. Keep personal problems private: 

Avoid involving friends or family in your arguments.

Seek counseling if needed, as it provides a better way to mediate issues. Image
3: Avoid holding grudges: 

Be dependable to each other and keep the promises you made.

Holding grudges can encourage disrespect and hinder the growth of the relationship. Image
4. Keep the spark alive: 

Don't stop doing the things you did while dating, such as getting dressed up, going out together without the kids, and engaging in adventurous activities.

Maintain those sexy conversations and role-play to keep the excitement alive. Image
5. Surround yourself with good friends: 

Build a brotherhood of strong, supportive friends for men, and encourage wives to have supportive friends as well. 

Having a circle of friends helps maintain a sense of purpose and handle life's monotonous moments.
Marriage is a joint effort between a man and women.

Top five tips:

•Communication
•Don’t involve family & friends
•Don’t hold grudges
•Don’t stop dating
•Surround yourself with good friends
Thank you for reading! 

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How to Age Like Fine Wine in Marriage
and Stay the Woman He Can't Stop Thinking About

After being married for over 20 years, I think I’ve learned a few things. 

Especially since yes, I’m saying it
our sex life has gotten better with every year that passes. Image
I’m about to share my top five tips for keeping spontaneity and adventure alive in your marriage.

In the early years, I did what a lot of women do:

I got caught up in the noise.

Kids. 
Chores. 
Routines. 
Schedules.
All of it.

 And slowly, those things started to crowd out the most important piece, us.
But I realized something fast: if I didn’t prioritize fun, seduction, and intimacy, no one else would.

So I carved out time. 

I’d plan surprise nights just for us. 

Sometimes I’d wait for him with nothing on but a smile. 

I didn’t just want a routine

I wanted desire.

Adventure.

A pulse.

And no, I never expected him to be the only one taking initiative. 

That’s a one-way street to resentment.
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Because when love is right, home is bright… Image
Let’s be real…

marriage isn’t just about love; it’s about effort. 

And if you want a man who actually wants to come home, you have to make home a place he wants to be.
Here are some simple but effective ways to take care of your husband

and these things will never go out of style…
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Why Modern Women in Relationships Slowly Start Seeking Attention and Excitement Elsewhere. . .Image
In the early stages of a relationship, passion and excitement are high. 

Both sides are deeply invested in each other, experiencing the thrill of something new. 

But over time, many women begin to seek attention and excitement outside their marriage. 

This shift doesn’t happen overnight
it’s a slow process influenced by emotional, psychological, and social factors.
The Comfort Trap 😭

One of the biggest reasons women start looking elsewhere is comfort. 

In long-term relationships, routine sets in. 

What once felt exciting and unpredictable becomes predictable and ordinary.
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How I’d Fix My Marriage in 90 Days: 

A Thoughtful 24-Hour Plan⬇️ Image
Marriage is team work that requires continuous effort, reflection, and prioritization. 

When relationships hit rough patches, it’s tempting to look outward for solutions, but real change starts with a shift in focus and intention. 

If I had 90 days to fix my marriage, I’d approach each day with a carefully structured schedule to ensure I was actively contributing to the health of my relationship.
Here's the detailed, hour-by-hour plan I’d follow: 

Morning: Starting the Day with Purpose

Each morning, I’d wake up two hours earlier, before the kids or the husband to focus on myself before the day begins. 

This time would be used for a workout to stay physically and mentally strong, as well as for any personal work I need to accomplish. 

By handling these tasks early, I’d free up more time and energy to focus on my husband and family throughout the day.

Remember prioritize your husband above the children.
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50/50 marriages are a recipe for disaster.

Here’s how to structure your relationship instead:⤵️
50/50 relationships are transactional by nature.

They imply if you do something for me, I’ll do something for you.

Although teamwork and relationship roles are important, this poses a huge problem.
The problem with this logic is it implies love is conditional.

It’s like claiming, “If you fulfill your end of the bargain, I’ll stay married to you.”

But that makes marriage feel like a chore instead of a loving bond between two people.
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There are extroverts, introverts & lone wolves.

What’s a lone wolf? 

They are the most successful personality trait of the three.

Here are their qualities & the advantages they have over others: Image
Lone wolves & introverts have many overlapping characteristics.

But they differ in a few key traits.

Introverts are introverted because they’re shy. 

Lone wolves are not.
Introverts have been forced into this category by their fear of social interaction. 

Although lone wolves might prefer to be alone, they’re not shy.

They’ve actively chosen to be this way, due to its advantages. 

Here are the 7 traits of being a lone wolf:
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