"Here, the sex difference is very stark. Higher-income men are more likely to have children; higher-income women are less likely to have children, and the sex difference is statistically significant."
5. "Most sociologists would argue that this is because we live in a gendered social world, where it remains normative for men to provide for families. Of course, this is true. But evolutionary psychologists would argue that this gendered social world is sustained, in part, by emotions and psychologies that differ somewhat by sex, particularly the powerful emotions having to do with sexuality, marriage, and parenting. Thus, even in the U.S. where women can and do earn as much as men, the actual behavioral choices men and women make differ, despite the tremendous economic and cultural changes in our society." @rlhopcro @unccharlotte
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2. One therapist:📱“have caused more upheaval than anything I’ve seen in my career. We’ve normalized them being intrusive & taking precedence when people are lying in bed, playing Wordle or scrolling through TikTok rather than talking to each other.”
Are his concerns merited?
3. Large minority of wives/husbands say spouse is often on phone/screen when they would prefer to talk or do something together as a couple. Specifically:
2. @TheAtlantic: In last decade, “Young single men have been moving to the right, even as their female peers have been moving even further left.” theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/…
3. “This poses a major challenge for people looking to marry, given that many of today’s young adults show a growing preference for partnering with someone who shares their politics.” Though… it does seem to make sense to marry someone who shares your core beliefs:
A big reason young men are floundering is that the meaning and responsibilities afforded by marriage & fatherhood are not theirs and not even on their horizon. So, there's nothing really to strive *for*. They have no mission in life.
Of course, a substantial share of men on this site do derive a sense of mission from highly valued or paid work. But for most ordinary guys, family has been a more fundamental vehicle for meaning. Now it's postponed or foregone.
This comes on heels of evidence fr @jean_twenge’s new book, *Generations*, which shows HS boys turning right (even as female peers turn left). Stunning ideological divide among HS seniors today:
✔️ @ 65% of HS senior boys conservative
✔️ @ 31% of HS senior girls conservative
Certainly see in my kids’ schools dramatic gender divides emerging in cultural/political attitudes for both MS/HS students. Doesn’t bode well for future of love, romance & marriage—given ways in which relationships flourish when couples are roughly on same page, values-wise.
3. The clear economic incentives & cultural status according to marriage by the U.S. military has translated into earlier marriage, more marriage & a bridging of the racial divide in American family life.