Thanksgiving is a truly American holiday. Where Americans reflect and give thanks for the incredible fortune we have enjoyed. It is the dinner, the gathering of family around a meat which makes thanksgiving special, but it has given rise to a new tradition, the Friendsgiving.
1/ Like many of you, I spent many Thanksgivings far from my blood family, sometimes sharing an MRE in an 1151 off Tampa, eating off a paper plate at NTC, or spending it with other homesick expats all over the world.
2/ For me, “Friendsgiving” started before the trend, and for over a decade I spent more thanksgivings with friends and my adopted brothers than I did with my blood family.
3/ It is these Thanksgivings that in retrospect mean the most to me, because they weren’t the obligatory family gathering, they were people we chose to spend the evening with.
4/ Inviting non blood relations into our homes and feeding them from our tables is one of the most intimate and nurturing things we can do.
This attraction towards supping with our friends is rooted in our history.
5/ From the days of Pliny the Younger witnessing early Christian Agape Feasts to frontier trappers gathering around a strangers fire to get out from the cold, the tradition of dining with those we are not forced to was once strong in the West. Somehow along the way we lost it.
6/ As we shifted towards a life of consumerism we often preferred the ease of eating in restaurants and meeting in bars. Public places are a crutch of formality, and reduce the intimacy of dinner at home in a society increasingly shying away from close interpersonal contact.
7/ And while the food at a restaurant may taste better, it will never match home cooked meals, the sense of accomplishment they provide and collegial participation of accomplishing something together.
8/ The imagery of close, friends and neighbors gathered around a home table, talkin, bonding and getting to know one another is the very basis of our culture.
9/ Unique to the spaces of the American frontier, finding another Christian home was paramount in the vast and hostile distances one traveled.
10/ We talk a lot about forming bonds and creating networks, but one of the best ways to solidify those bonds are through shared meals and great evenings.
11/ As Sebastian Junger once said “humans are the only species in which a young male will sacrifice his own life for another male he is not related to.’ One of the best evenings of my life was spent getting to know a group of officers over dinner at Balhousie.
12/ Veterans all, we ate, drank and for nearly six hours discussed battles old and new and debated the merits of American bourbon versus highland scotch. Over dinner you learn about one another, you have nowhere to hide, and your honest self will always reveal itself.
13/ By focusing on quality and production over consumption, it is our little way of pushing back against the current zeitgeist of consumerism. This isn’t some Ancient tradition, it is the way our Parents and Grandparents lived. The hard generations found it helpful, so will we.
14/ It is our way of bringing back solid traditions of old in the hopes that with the traditions come some of the close bonds of community that we remember from our youth. They are social events and whether they are co-ed, or divided the goal is to have fun.
15/ So sometime between family Thanksgiving and family Christmas find a night to gather some friends together bring them over, feed them food drink some of whatever it is you drink and start putting our society back together. If you need help, I’ll help you put together a menu.
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The thing about political assassinations is they almost always backfire.
Killing Caesar got you the Triumvirate 2
Lincoln got you reconstruction
Ghandis ended Hindu nationalism
MLK JFK etc
Leaders on the left know this. And fear us
They know regular conservatives aren’t lone wolf killer types. We aren’t laying on rooftops to kill a political celebrity. We have too much to lose yes, but that is not how we flex our power
What they fear is our turning our backs on them. Our indifference to their causes.
Most conservatives believe in America. And we believe that most Americans just want a good America.
At least we did. Over the past few years that belief has eroded to the point of vanishing. The left has pushed and pushed and now they see us about to push back
“Air supremacy” is a broad term. But a general definition is you can hit whatever you want from the air, and the enemy can not. Sure, people still will get shot down. But the mission is a success.
The Serbs shot down an F-117, no one is saying we didn’t have air supremacy in Kosovo
Same in 1944-1945 in Europe. The Allies bombed what they wanted, and the Luftwaffe could not return the favor: still men died, but its war.
Apparently we are giving CDLs to third worlders now, but ask any Iraq veteran and they will tell you why this is a terrible idea.
These people not only can not operate vehicles like this even in the best of conditions, but their disregard for human life is mind boggling
We always talk about logistics. Logistics win wars. Got it.
But to keep the FOBs going, the US drove in hundreds of trucks every night up the MSRs (main supply routes) from Kuwait. They carried food and fuel, ice cream and Burger King.
Shepherded into 40 truck convoys and escorted by American gun trucks, they drove at night, slipping though the dark sand like an army of sand worms.
To solve this manpower need, the army recruited Third Country Nationals (TCNs) to pilot the semi trucks.
What if I told you the lesson from GWOT wasnt if V Shaped Hulls are useful against China, rather is it the ability to create an Operational Needs Statement process for units in the field to know if V Shaped Hulls are needed or not?
We talk about battles, glory gained against the enemy and great stories of overcoming dreadful odds, but more often than not it is the thankless, tedious mental work done before two armies meet on the field that decides who wins and who loses
Like on the march to Fredericksburg
1/ By the winter of 1862, the Union Army of the Potomac had known little but defeat. They had been beaten like a drum four times at the hands of the Army of Northern Virginia, and had escaped with a draw in September of 1862, despite knowing the entire Southern battle plan.
2/ Nevertheless, the draw at Antietam breathed new life into the Union Army, but the fact remained that after a year and half of war, they were still only 35 miles into the Confederacy. That November, Lincoln replaced the slow moving McClellan with Ambrose Burnside.
This is one of my favorite scenes from one of my favorite war movies, and it is exactly why all those alpha, sigma, raw egg weirdos know nothing about women, war, or what makes a man a man
The men start the clip hardened. It is 1917, three years into the slaughterhouses of the trenches. The French Army is at its breaking point, they just had some of their own men executed for mutiny
They start jeering the German girl, she is an object and they are at their basest
But then she starts to sing. It is a German song called Der treue Husar (the faithful hussar), who learns his love is sick and dying and tries to make it back to her in time.
The French soldiers don’t understand the words, but a woman’s voice is a woman’s voice