A lot of ppl ask why im open about my relationship when obv it brings hate…personally its never affected my income, so i feel comfortable sharing it. Most of us are in long term relationships…and it’s important for me to show visibility that it’s possible for girls like us to have loving partners and we don’t have to settle for dirt bc that’s what society makes us think we have to deal with 😙
For a long time, I thought there was something wrong w me and I’d only attract bad men bc that’s what I deserved. I couldn’t discern normal behavior from someone who just didn’t respect me…when u find it, it’s rare and special. I know a lot of us struggle w/dating. Trust me, the haters do too…
The message isn’t as important as the authenticity…I haven’t had trouble navigating emotional intimacy now that I’m much more honest n upfront about myself, and the standards I uphold…I don’t tolerate disrespect, my life is perfect 🤷🏼♀️ it means nothing to me if I’d never trade places w you
A lot of u ppl have internalized the belief that women like me are supposed to be treated badly and deserve “consequences”. That there is something inherently humiliating to be associated w me…when really our existence shouldn’t affect u at all bc we would never date u in the first place. Ur mad at a projection of a woman not even in your radar…I’m just the asshole in the mirror.
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