Want to know how pornography could actually be improving boys' relationships with their bodies?
Then read on...
In all honesty, there's not a lot of research on adolescent body image and pornography. But there is SOME stuff...
Firstly, there is evidence to suggest that MEN who watch lots of pornography are more likely to view mesomorphic (large muscle mass, low fat) bodies as desirable. Unsurprisingly, these same men are also less likely to be satisfied with their own bods. As for teens...
...An Internet Matters survey from 2018 of over 2000 parents of teens found that 27% of young people who watched porn experienced 'poor self esteem as they judge themselves against the actors' they're watching in pornography...
...In the same survey 34% of parents say watching porn harms their child's body image. But this is just what PARENTS are saying, specifically about porn and body image.
If we focus solely on body image alone, we do know that boys feel insecure about their bodies...
...a Picture of Health report by Credos of 1005 boys found that at secondary age, 38% of boys feel a pressure about how their bodies look. Of these, 56% say they'd find it hard to talk to a teacher about these worries...
...Anyway - back to pornography.
In her 2021 book, Pornography and Public Health, Emily Rothman actually posited the THEORY that amateur porn - which is more popular among younger porn consumers - could actually be having a positive impact on the way young ppl see their bodies..
...amateur or 'homemade' porn is more likely to feature 'real bodies' and therefore could help combat the myth that to be attractive, or having sex (if you want to use that as a proxy), you need to be a muscle-bound Adonis.
We need more research on this though...
...Penis size. There. I said it. Intuitively, it stands to reason that pornography might induce penis size anxiety among porn consumers who are used to watching male porn actors with large penises. Again, research is scant and confusing...
...some studies show that porn consumption does lead to greater dissatisfaction with the size of one's penis, but others show that consumers of porn are actually MORE pleased with their penis size.
Interesting.
So what does this mean for teachers?
1. Avoid stigmatising the discussion of pornography.
Not every person who watches porn is an evil sexual deviant who deserves to be ridden with guilt. Do what you can to make children feel like they can discuss worries safely...
2. As for penis size anxiety, I'd suggest that directing emphasis on how males can make their intimate partners feel comfortable and cared for is the best use of their time and...ahem...energy.
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🧵 Big news today: Netflix drama Adolescence will be shown in all UK secondary schools to help tackle the influence of toxic online figures like Andrew Tate. As a teacher—and someone who’s worked closely with teenage boys—I’ve got thoughts. A thread 👇 🧵
The show follows a 13-year-old boy accused of stabbing a classmate. It explores misogyny, online radicalisation, and the influence of male figures like Tate. It’s bold, and it’s necessary. But it also raises some serious concerns.
My first concern: using Adolescence in schools risks villainising boys who are already vulnerable. If a student sees himself in the main character—lost, angry, looking for belonging—then watching that character be framed as dangerous could push him further away, not bring him in.
🧵 Ofsted Inspections and Sexual Harassment: a thread for people working in schools 🧵
Sexual harassment is very much on Ofsted's agenda. Here's what you need to know.
Say what you like about Ofsted, but tackling the scourge child-on-child sexual harassment (SH) is something they really care about. Increasingly, a teachers are getting in touch to tell me that during inspection, children were asked about sexual harassment by Ofsted inspectors.
Inspectors are asking questions like:
-Does SH happen here?
- What have you learned about SH and how to deal with it?
- Do you know who to go to should incidences of SH occur?
I asked current Ofsted inspector directly , last night, what sort of questions could be asked. 👇
🧵 FRAGILE MASCULINITY, SEXISM AND HOMOPHOBIA: A THREAD FOR PARENTS AND TEACHERS 🧵
It's never easy to hear rank sexism or homophobia, particularly if it's from boys or men we care about.
I've just read an interesting study into this and I want to tell you about it...
So in 2017, researchers gave 166 straight blokes, a survey with questions about their own masculinity, how important their masculinity was and any anti-gay attitudes they might have or not have.
Then it gets interesting...
All participants were told that the survey measured the extent of their masculinity or femininity.
Half of the fellas were not told the outcome of their survey. (Control group).
The other half were told that their responses were classed as feminine. Masculinity threatened!
I've taught a lot of boys a lot of writing over the years. Here's a few tips to get boys writing, better.
1. THE DOT
Research has shown that those things that are conducive to academic success- hard work, perseverance, organisation - are seen by students as inherently female traits, and as such, the reverse is true for boys.
This - along with the idea that English is a ‘girly subject’ - could explain why many boys struggle to get going when it comes to writing.
As Mark Roberts explains in Boys Don’t Try, ‘the dot’ can be a useful tool in holding boys to account.
🧵 'LOOKSMAXXING': A guide for teachers and parents. 🧵
Warning: a bit gory
Let me tell you about Looksmaxxing: the toxic trend telling lads that in order to look good, they need to smash the bones in their face. Yep. Smash the bones in their face.
The term LooksMaxxing, refers to the process of maximising one’s physical attractiveness in order to be more sexually appealing to women. The phrase has direct links to incel culture and the manosphere and is a popular TikTok trend among teenagers.
Most teenage boys I speak to are aware of Looksmaxxing and the various techniques that can be employed to improve their 'SMV' - Sexual Market Value