🧵 'Bigorexia': The anxiety disorder affecting 1 in 10 young gymgoers in the UK - A thread for teachers and parents 🧵
Content Information: contains reference to eating disorders
'Bigorexia' - also known as muscle dysmorphia - is an anxiety disorder that leads someone to believe that they are too small or skinny, and/or that they are never muscly enough.
Sufferers become fixated on gaining muscle...
This fixation on muscle gain can lead to:
- excessive and dangerous weight training
- restrictive eating practices
- a reliance on anabolic steroids as a means of achieving muscle growth.
Perhaps unsurprisingly, Bigorexia is more commonly observed in men than women...
...A 2019 study of nearly 15,000 people found that 22% of men, compared to 5% of women reported eating disorders linked to working out and attempts to gain muscle.
It is believed 1 in 10 young male gymgoers in the UK suffer from Bigorexia.
Average age of onset is 19 yrs old...
...One UK study found that 'almost half (48%) of secondary age boys would consider exercising with the specific intention of building muscle and bulking up.'
Of these boys, 10% would consider taking steroids to achieve their goals...
WHAT CAN TEACHERS AND SCHOOLS DO?
1. Learn to spot the signs of Bigorexia.
Children who are developing Bigorexia, or are already suffering with it, may:
- Exercise excessively
- Display rapid muscle or weight gin
- Miss out on social activities in favour of exercise
- Eat lots of food, regularly
- Be observed regularly using protein shakes or dietary supplements
- Train, despite injury
- Display acne, increased facial hair growth, and enlarged breasts (in males) due to steroid abuse
- Display aggression or mood swings
2. Teach boys about the dangers of steroids abuse.
Abusing steroids for muscle growth can lead to:
- Hair loss
- Breast development
- Severe acne
- Stomach pain
- Increased risk of prostate cancer
- Infertility
- Shrunken testicles
- Erectile dysfunction
- Low sperm count
3. Listen out for language of steroid abuse.
Slang terms for steroids include:
- roids
- gear
- juice
You may overhear boys talking about these things. I know I have.
4. Avoid talking about the body. Stop using phrases like:
- 'Wow. You've shot up over the summer.'
-'I need a few strong boys to help me move this table.'
-'As you can tell, I've eaten a few too many cakes this Christmas!'
Comment on effort, warmth, kindness, humour instead.
Here's a load of further reading.
If you found this interesting, you'll probably find my book, Boys Do Cry, interesting too.
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🧵 Big news today: Netflix drama Adolescence will be shown in all UK secondary schools to help tackle the influence of toxic online figures like Andrew Tate. As a teacher—and someone who’s worked closely with teenage boys—I’ve got thoughts. A thread 👇 🧵
The show follows a 13-year-old boy accused of stabbing a classmate. It explores misogyny, online radicalisation, and the influence of male figures like Tate. It’s bold, and it’s necessary. But it also raises some serious concerns.
My first concern: using Adolescence in schools risks villainising boys who are already vulnerable. If a student sees himself in the main character—lost, angry, looking for belonging—then watching that character be framed as dangerous could push him further away, not bring him in.
🧵 Ofsted Inspections and Sexual Harassment: a thread for people working in schools 🧵
Sexual harassment is very much on Ofsted's agenda. Here's what you need to know.
Say what you like about Ofsted, but tackling the scourge child-on-child sexual harassment (SH) is something they really care about. Increasingly, a teachers are getting in touch to tell me that during inspection, children were asked about sexual harassment by Ofsted inspectors.
Inspectors are asking questions like:
-Does SH happen here?
- What have you learned about SH and how to deal with it?
- Do you know who to go to should incidences of SH occur?
I asked current Ofsted inspector directly , last night, what sort of questions could be asked. 👇
🧵 FRAGILE MASCULINITY, SEXISM AND HOMOPHOBIA: A THREAD FOR PARENTS AND TEACHERS 🧵
It's never easy to hear rank sexism or homophobia, particularly if it's from boys or men we care about.
I've just read an interesting study into this and I want to tell you about it...
So in 2017, researchers gave 166 straight blokes, a survey with questions about their own masculinity, how important their masculinity was and any anti-gay attitudes they might have or not have.
Then it gets interesting...
All participants were told that the survey measured the extent of their masculinity or femininity.
Half of the fellas were not told the outcome of their survey. (Control group).
The other half were told that their responses were classed as feminine. Masculinity threatened!
I've taught a lot of boys a lot of writing over the years. Here's a few tips to get boys writing, better.
1. THE DOT
Research has shown that those things that are conducive to academic success- hard work, perseverance, organisation - are seen by students as inherently female traits, and as such, the reverse is true for boys.
This - along with the idea that English is a ‘girly subject’ - could explain why many boys struggle to get going when it comes to writing.
As Mark Roberts explains in Boys Don’t Try, ‘the dot’ can be a useful tool in holding boys to account.
🧵 'LOOKSMAXXING': A guide for teachers and parents. 🧵
Warning: a bit gory
Let me tell you about Looksmaxxing: the toxic trend telling lads that in order to look good, they need to smash the bones in their face. Yep. Smash the bones in their face.
The term LooksMaxxing, refers to the process of maximising one’s physical attractiveness in order to be more sexually appealing to women. The phrase has direct links to incel culture and the manosphere and is a popular TikTok trend among teenagers.
Most teenage boys I speak to are aware of Looksmaxxing and the various techniques that can be employed to improve their 'SMV' - Sexual Market Value