🧵 MANOSPHERE & INCELS: A glossary for teachers and parents 🧵
MANOSPHERE (noun)
The name given to websites, blogs and forums ostensibly dedicated to supporting men with relationships, health and fitness, mental health and legal wranglings. Also a place of radicalisation with a dark underbelly.
INCEL (noun)
A portmanteau of 'INvoluntary' and 'CELibate', incels are men who are unable to have sexual or intimate relations with women. In their view, women are shallow, superficial beings who are only interested in what incels are not: handsome, wealthy, powerful men.
80/20 PRINCIPLE (noun)
The 80/20 principle is the belief that 80% of women find only 20% of men attractive. These are powerful, rich, handsome men known as 'Chads' (below). Incels perceive this to be greatly unfair and is a source of much of their resentment towards women.
CHADS (noun)
Chads are men who are able to secure romantic and sexual relationships with women because of their looks, wealth and power. Incels despise Chads.
STACYS (noun)
A 'Stacy' is a super attractive female who holds lots of sexual power, because of her attractiveness. Like Chads, Stacy's are people that incels really resent.
THE MATRIX (noun)
The Matrix refers to the reality of the world as Incels perceive it. Namely that there is a powerful, woke elite actively conspiring to destroy men and masculinity. When Tate was arrested he tweeted, 'The Matrix sent their agents.'
THE RED PILL (noun)
A man who has taken the red pill is awake to the fact that there exists a matrix in which women are seeking to destroy men.
'Red pillers' believe that in becoming more attractive, wealthy and powerful they can take power back from women.
THE BLUE PILL (noun)
Us idiots who don't recognise that there is a matrix at play, are what known as Blue Pillers.
THE BLACK PILL
Incels who have swallowed the Black Pill are a nihilistic version of red pillers. They recognise that women have all the power and that their own unattractiveness dooms them to a life of misery.
Black pill communities online focus on mass shootings and suicide.
ELLIOT RODGER (noun/verb)
Elliot Rodger has godlike status amongst incels. Rodger killed 6 people and then himself in an act of incel revenge against women who refused to recognise his 'supreme gentleman' status...
...Rodger's name or the abbreviation 'ER' is often used as a verb to mean 'mass killing'. As in, 'I'm so angry, I want to go full ER.'
FOID (noun)
A shortening of the phrase 'female humanoid', 'Foid' is how incels refer to women. The term is designed to strip women of their humanity. Example usage: 'I've swallowed the red pill. I realise that the foids are out to get us.'
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Mewing is another trend that can be added to the growing list of crazes gripping the imagination of boys up and down the country. Read on to find out what it is and why we need to be concerned about it...
A huge trend on TikTok, Mewing is the act of flattening the tongue against the upper palate of the mouth in order to ‘improve’ bone structure and give young boys the square, hatchet jawline that they’ve been made to believe is essential to appearing attractive to others.
As someone who resembles a beach ball with thumbs, mewing sounds appealing. After all, it’s a non-surgical, non-invasive technique that will make me more attractive to others. Why would I not want that?
Lots of people have got in touch to tell me they’d like to know a little more about Sigma males because the term ‘Sigma’ is something lots of teenage boys are mentioning in schools.
So here we go... 👇
In order to understand what a Sigma Male is, it’s important that we remind ourselves of what an Alpha Male is.
An Alpha male is a man who holds a position of dominance over less powerful males (beta males).
Alpha males earn their dominant position through:
- Sexual success with women
- Accumulation and displays of material wealth
- Physical dominance through violence or displays of physical power such as working out
🧵Building a future for Young Men in the Construction Industry: A Thread for Teachers🧵
Content: suicide
You may already be aware that men are three times more likely than women to die by suicide. But...
...did you know that men in the Construction industry are ‘at some of the highest risk of suicide in the country, at 3.7 times higher than the national average’.
It's true. Look:
Astonishingly, this report, found that, in 2019, before the COVID pandemic, 26% of construction workers thought about taking their own lives: ciob.org/media-centre/n…
As I reflect cringingly on a weekend of overzealous tweeting during a time of emotional instability, I remember this Australian study that asked 251 suicidal men, what they said to let ppl know they were in crisis. 👇
Link to study:
Some people theorise that phrases such as 'I'm feeling unloved', or 'I have butterflies in my stomach all the time', are 'feminised' and therefore less likely to be used by men.bmjopen.bmj.com/content/bmjope…
An Australian study surveyed 251 men on the language they used to express suicidal thoughts and depression.
When feeling suicidal the most common phrases men used to describe their feelings were:
🧵 'Bigorexia': The anxiety disorder affecting 1 in 10 young gymgoers in the UK - A thread for teachers and parents 🧵
Content Information: contains reference to eating disorders
'Bigorexia' - also known as muscle dysmorphia - is an anxiety disorder that leads someone to believe that they are too small or skinny, and/or that they are never muscly enough.
Sufferers become fixated on gaining muscle...
This fixation on muscle gain can lead to:
- excessive and dangerous weight training
- restrictive eating practices
- a reliance on anabolic steroids as a means of achieving muscle growth.
Perhaps unsurprisingly, Bigorexia is more commonly observed in men than women...
Want to know how pornography could actually be improving boys' relationships with their bodies?
Then read on...
In all honesty, there's not a lot of research on adolescent body image and pornography. But there is SOME stuff...
Firstly, there is evidence to suggest that MEN who watch lots of pornography are more likely to view mesomorphic (large muscle mass, low fat) bodies as desirable. Unsurprisingly, these same men are also less likely to be satisfied with their own bods. As for teens...