Boys have a complex relationship with humour, what with banter etc, but I'm going to try and keep this thread short and focused on teacher use of humour to build relationships. Ready?
Firstly, know that humour works with boys. Studies show that the use of humour is important for boys in forging relationships.
Also, a study from Japan showed that specific types of teacher humour is really good for student mental health AND teacher-pupil relationships.
And we want positive relationships with our male students right? So, at the risk of sounding a bit Brenty, allow me to tell you how to be funny.
After all, Who needs 'Effective Marking Strategies CPD' when you can have 'Effective Groucho Marxing Strategies CPD'?
Students' favourite type of humour something called 'related humour'. That is, any humour directly related to the lesson content. Related humour can be conveniently broken down into ten subcategories. I'm going to tell you them now and yes, I'm cringing already. Sorry!
1. PROPS
Kids enjoy it when teachers 'dress up for the theme of the class.' So nippy down to the fancy dress shop and blow the kids away next week.
History teachers - you be careful with this one.
2. JOKES
Jokes about the lesson content are funny. Like this gem of my own creation:
'You know who's going to win the best punctuation mark award this year? The colon. I can feel it in my stomach.'
Geddit?
3. EXAMPLES
Humourous examples are a win. The Japan study specified that kids liked it when 'maths teachers have used names in word problems that were humorous.'
This crazy maths teachers, eh?
4. STORIES
Students like it when teachers use funny concepts to explain stories. Like when I tell them about the time I told them I kept calling hyperbole, hyper bowl to somebody I was trying to impress at University.
Hilarious, that. Really, really funny.
On that note - not one for the kids this - but doesn't the word hyperbolic sound like an excited testicle?
Anyways - we carry on...
5. CYNICISM
Apparently kids love it when teachers rip the piss out of course materials such as textbooks or online videos. A great opportunity to legitimately let loose on those textbooks from the 1970s (or 1870s) that have been collecting dust in the stationary cupboard.
6. STEREOTYPES
Pot shots at student behaviours are apparently welcome. 'I know you lot all think Shakespeare's boring' and 'All teens are lazy' sorta stuff. They like it when you tease them about the slang they use too, but I'd advise you to check Urban Dictionary before!
7. STUDENT TEASING
Rather confusingly, this one is also on the list of humour types that students hate most so tread carefully.
It's okay if it's 'related to the material.'
Yeah. I don't know either.
8. TEACHER PERFORMANCE
Kids like it when teachers perform. I often recite bad poetry to children. I don't know why.
In the study they mention a teacher who ran around the room. Another student said he 'liked it when his teacher did a rap about math.'
Please. Never do this.
9. ROLE PLAYING ACTIVITIES.
Getting students to play parts is always fun. For example, getting students to play excited gas particles and lazy solid particles.
I wouldn't get kids playing the parts of the reproductive system though. That would be weird.
10. CREATIVE LANGUAGE USE
The use of puns humorous mnemonics and funny names. The Japan study mentions one entertainingly hilarious teacher who refers to bacteria as 'little beasties
Mewing is another trend that can be added to the growing list of crazes gripping the imagination of boys up and down the country. Read on to find out what it is and why we need to be concerned about it...
A huge trend on TikTok, Mewing is the act of flattening the tongue against the upper palate of the mouth in order to ‘improve’ bone structure and give young boys the square, hatchet jawline that they’ve been made to believe is essential to appearing attractive to others.
As someone who resembles a beach ball with thumbs, mewing sounds appealing. After all, it’s a non-surgical, non-invasive technique that will make me more attractive to others. Why would I not want that?
Lots of people have got in touch to tell me they’d like to know a little more about Sigma males because the term ‘Sigma’ is something lots of teenage boys are mentioning in schools.
So here we go... 👇
In order to understand what a Sigma Male is, it’s important that we remind ourselves of what an Alpha Male is.
An Alpha male is a man who holds a position of dominance over less powerful males (beta males).
Alpha males earn their dominant position through:
- Sexual success with women
- Accumulation and displays of material wealth
- Physical dominance through violence or displays of physical power such as working out
🧵 MANOSPHERE & INCELS: A glossary for teachers and parents 🧵
MANOSPHERE (noun)
The name given to websites, blogs and forums ostensibly dedicated to supporting men with relationships, health and fitness, mental health and legal wranglings. Also a place of radicalisation with a dark underbelly.
INCEL (noun)
A portmanteau of 'INvoluntary' and 'CELibate', incels are men who are unable to have sexual or intimate relations with women. In their view, women are shallow, superficial beings who are only interested in what incels are not: handsome, wealthy, powerful men.
🧵Building a future for Young Men in the Construction Industry: A Thread for Teachers🧵
Content: suicide
You may already be aware that men are three times more likely than women to die by suicide. But...
...did you know that men in the Construction industry are ‘at some of the highest risk of suicide in the country, at 3.7 times higher than the national average’.
It's true. Look:
Astonishingly, this report, found that, in 2019, before the COVID pandemic, 26% of construction workers thought about taking their own lives: ciob.org/media-centre/n…
As I reflect cringingly on a weekend of overzealous tweeting during a time of emotional instability, I remember this Australian study that asked 251 suicidal men, what they said to let ppl know they were in crisis. 👇
Link to study:
Some people theorise that phrases such as 'I'm feeling unloved', or 'I have butterflies in my stomach all the time', are 'feminised' and therefore less likely to be used by men.bmjopen.bmj.com/content/bmjope…
An Australian study surveyed 251 men on the language they used to express suicidal thoughts and depression.
When feeling suicidal the most common phrases men used to describe their feelings were: