Several weeks ago, I made the decision to limit access to me. My FB feed was becoming the new obituary page. Even after dozens of postings about Covid case counts, Covid deaths, Covid long term symptoms, new deadly rising mutations, friends and their family were dying off. 1/7
If there were an “aha” moment..it only lasted until the next date on their social calendar.
My cousin who would call after my Covid posts has lost her Mom, 2 sisters, a brother, a brother-in-law, and a sister-in-law. None of them made life adjustments to combat Covid. 2/7
In early April, she called to asked if I was still doing the “Covid thing.” I shared with her the correlation between Covid and sudden deaths..even in our family. She then said that she was making plans to go to Vegas that month & going on a cruise the first week in May. 3/7
She then tried to encourage me to go on a cruise and to take my mother…and invited us to a gathering as well. Convinced that I was no longer talking to her, but I was talking to “Covid,” I ended the conversation. 4/7
She is now in a wheel chair…The cruise never took place because she had a stroke in Vegas. Six weeks later, she’s at a funeral of a friend…maskless.
What can you do???🙄 5/7
I’ve tried to remain as optimistic as possible but the truth is-the people we once knew are gone…. illogical thoughts, impulsive actions, uncaring hearts have manifested from repeated Covid infections. There is no doubt that Covid has impacted their brains. 6/7
The world is very strange. I’m watching how even the most astute Covid educated people have “fallen off” as conversations and focus have changed.
Mine are still the same.
My daughter asked…what is the plan now?
My response-to stay resilient and outlive them all. That’s it. 7/7
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A year ago 5 (40+ year old) sorority sisters planned a trip to Turks and Caicos.
Two days before the trip one of the Sisters who had recently “recovered” from Covid experienced extreme pain in her calf and went to Urgent Care. 1/11
She concluded that the pain may be from working out but she was advised to go to the ER for imaging.
She went home instead.
Hours later, she had a pulmonary embolism and fell into a coma. 2/11
Although the group trip was insured for “any cause rebooking,” and everyone could have rebooked at a later date. They did not…citing that continuing their plans is what the Sister in the coma would have wanted. 😳 3/11
I make it a practice of not attending group settings of any kind where my health is dependent of the behavior of other people UNTIL last week.
The Oncology Nursing Society Congress (Conference) was in DC and, it is important that the Covid Conscious has representation…1/13
So dolled up in 4 inch heels and wearing a respirator, I attended (informally), but visible enough to discuss rising cases of rapidly progressing Cancer in patients following Covid. 2/13
What is interesting is that the doctors, nurses, pharmacists, research clinicians that I talked to ALL had lingering effects of Covid or “Long Covid” without connecting their new illnesses with Covid. 3/13
My high school reunion was this past weekend.
The usual calls that come in the week leading to the reunion like when are you arriving, what are you wearing, have you spoken with….did not happen. 1/11
Knowing how I feel about Covid safety precautions, protecting oneself and not spreading a deadly virus rendered me INVISIBLE. Friends who I used to speak regularly even up to a few months ago, never called.
Now, I didn’t expect that. 2/11
Then came the smiley faced maskless pictures of friends that I supported along the way. The friend who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s after a Covid infection in 2022..the friend who was on medical leave for 7 months following a 3 week hospital visit in 2022…3/11
A friend who I was checking on and is PRESENTLY on his 6th Covid infection, didn’t like the tone of an old FB post educating my FBF about exactly what Covid is….What it does to the body…and why mitigations were lifted. 1/4
He thought that as we are approaching year 5 in the pandemic, my approach should be SOFTER. He said that people won’t like my information because it will make everyone feel like they have to “Go Back” to taking precautions. He said that the post wasn’t positive. 2/4
After explaining to him that I am not in the business of pacifying people, nor am I responsible for their perception of factual information….that the post was not meant to convert, but to educate those who were still interested in Staying Safe…He said those magical words….3/4
Covid Twilight Zone
Covid Conscious friend’s 40 year- old partying brother gave Covid to their 80 year old parents.
Mother-spent 3 weeks in the hospital
Father-went into hospice and died this morning.
40 year-old brother never went to hospital nor hospice to visit because “they are old” and “what can I do anyway.” He remains maskless.
Coworker who got Covid along with her father at the family reunion….
Covid + father passed out and was found unconscious in his home. Suffered an acute kidney injury, wears a catheter because he could never urinated on his own again is now in Pallaitive Care.