Reasons why people detransition 🧵:
(Non exhaustive list)
-health issues related to dangerous & experimental medical interventions
-social/dating difficulties related to fighting one’s biological sex
-realizing they were fed lies by doctors
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-the realization that fighting biology is dangerous in the long term even if medical consequences haven’t set in yet.
- realizing that gender ideology is built on a stack of lies.
-realizing that sex is immutable and attempts to fight it are dangerous
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-recovering from a mental health crisis and regaining a clarity of mind
-growing up and realizing the full weight of the consequences of attempts to ‘change sex’
-realizing that cosmetic surgeries don’t solve complex distress & mental health problems
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-leaving the trans community due to its incredibly toxicity and authoritarianism, and then realizing that there is no social benefit to continue transition
-loss of singing voice
-loss of important body parts you were brainwashed into seeing as ‘optional accessories’
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-Finding another religion, typically something organized which celebrates the wholeness and interconnectedness of the human body AND therefore frowns upon removal of healthy body parts (unlike the trans religion)
-Financial costs of endless medicalization
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-the desire to make peace with oneself without having big pharma in the picture
-becoming dissilusioned with trans activism
-becoming dissilusioned with the political/ideological beliefs which incentivized or normalized transition
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-wanting to have kids
-hitting ‘rock bottom’ and having real life problems to contend with, and realizing that transition stands in the way of being able to solve them
-a desire to stop thinking of your past as “dead”
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- A non-affirming environment which refuses to collude in someone’s identity which is predicated upon self-hatred, delusion, coercion or based on the obvious presence of secondary sex characteristics which make ‘passing’ impossible
-not passing
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-the incredible psychological burden of denying the existence of your past, and not being able to show friends your childhood photos because it would ‘give you away’
-the realization that your dysphoria has shifted from one body part to the next with every intervention
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- discovering (the hard way) that there’s a REASON why you are distressed about your sexed body and that the reason is NOT that you were “born in the wrong body” (whatever that means)
-realizing that hormones, surgery, binding &tucking aren’t fu*king costume changes
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-realizing that removal of healthy and functional body parts creates far more problems than it solves
-getting a diagnosis of autism, ADHD or any other neurodevelopmental condition and suddenly understanding WHY you ACTUALLY feel different
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-experiencing such astounding cognitive dissonance when being exposed to gender critical content that it gives you the most massive HEADACHE of your life- and actually trying to resolve the cognitive dissonance through critical thought.
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- Realizing that the categories of “man” & “woman” are defined simply by age and biology- NOT by fashion preferences, haircuts, hobbies or interests
-realizing that you no longer want to take part in a movement which endangers the futures & bodies of vulnerable populations
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-realizing that there’s no such thing as being “born in the wrong body”
-realizing that being tied to the pharmaceutical industry is incredibly impractical do, especially when your gonads are healthy and don’t need to be removed
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-realizing you are in a body modification cult and wanting to leave
-realizing it is unhealthy to spend so much of your life fixating on the ‘rightness’ or ‘wrongness’ of specific body parts which are objectively and materially parts of YOUR body
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-Realizing that there’s no need to punish yourself for being gay because there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU
-realizing that sex is a material reality & not an immaterial feeling
-you stopped playing video games and realized that your physical body matters
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-Realizing that your embodiment of your own self-hatred harms younger siblings or family members who may try to imitate you
-You’ve become only MORE su!c!dal because of transition
-Realizing there are less invasive ways to treat sex dysphoria/gender incongruence
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- listening to detransitioners’ accounts and having an “oh sh!t”moment.
-Experiencing one seed of doubt after the next over the course of months and years, but ignoring each one until some massive catalyst topples the entire house of cards
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Anyone who think that detransitioners and regretters deserve the medical harm they’ve endured because they used to believe in gender ideology are WRONG.
And, here’s an example of one such comment:
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Obtuse internet commenters have been leaving messages along the lines of “someone who believes in falsehoods about biological sex deserves these complications because they’re making a choice to deny reality.”
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First and foremost, to address this specific comment, let us not forget that the majority of teen &adult patients referred to gender clinics have overwhelmingly high rates of psychological comorbidities. These are NOT people of sound mind. They’re deeply distressed people
Gender ideology being peddled to toddlers and to very young kids.
This is immoral because introduction to such false ideas literally stunts the psychological and personal development of children.
Let me explain:
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Children under the age of about eight are don’t understand that their biological sex is immutable- that they are born a boy or a girl and that no matter what they wear, they will be a boy or a girl forever.
This is because they have not developed the notion of sex constancy
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Sex constancy is a milestone of psychological development which some hypothesize begins developing as early as age 5 and other say starts around 6-7 years of age when children develop more logical reasoning.
Pathologizing gender nonconformity in children is largely what got us into this mess.
So, your young son wants to wear a dress.
So, your young daughter wants to run around shirtless, slinging mud at her friends.
So what?
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Inoculate your kids against gender ideology by teaching them that their sex is not determined by their interests and play patterns
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Far too many parents worry that their child’s gender nonconformity is a sign of a future catastrophe and that in order to avoid this catastrophe, their kids must be shoved into a box of extreme gender conformity.
I’m often asked why I care so much about gender medicine and gender ideology, as someone who did not undergo hormonal or surgical interventions.
Here’s why:
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Simply having been exposed to the theory that my gender nonconforming behavior is evidence that my healthy female body is ‘wrong’ was harmful in and of itself. The ideas were so compelling to me at 12 that the last half of my life became dedicated to pursuing medicalization.
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My plan all along was to medicalize. I moved to the Middle East in order to do so away from my non-affirming parents. I predicated my entire future upon accessing testosterone and cosmetic surgeries. In lieu of being able to access these interventions, I used others to ‘pass’