But many young adults who don’t want kids don’t fully anticipate the social, $ & emotional realities of childlessness in later life. Staggering stats here from Pew:
Among older childless adults…
✔️ 72% worry about finances
✔️ 68% worry about having caregiver when old
✔️ 56% worry about being lonely
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@JDVance1 3. @JDVance1 has expressed support for a policy to “make birth free” &, more broadly, policies that ensure that new parents are not hit w/ huge bill for childbirth.
Why the concern re: polyamory, asks @justin_mogilski of the University of South Carolina?
It's not about some antiquated hangup.
It's that monogamy is a major social achievement, as Harvard's @JoHenrich's work has shown.
Why does monogamy matter?
Let me count the ways🧵
Men and women are pulled in a variety of sometimes conflicting directions when it comes to mating. Monogamous societies, @JoHenrich's work suggests, channel mating towards pair bonding. What are the collective benefits?
1) Monogamy reduces rape, murder, and social disorder.
By incorporating a wider range of men into marriage and family life, monogamous marriage also fosters
2) greater investments in children + more economic productivity.
2. One therapist:📱“have caused more upheaval than anything I’ve seen in my career. We’ve normalized them being intrusive & taking precedence when people are lying in bed, playing Wordle or scrolling through TikTok rather than talking to each other.”
Are his concerns merited?
3. Large minority of wives/husbands say spouse is often on phone/screen when they would prefer to talk or do something together as a couple. Specifically:
2. @TheAtlantic: In last decade, “Young single men have been moving to the right, even as their female peers have been moving even further left.” theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/…
3. “This poses a major challenge for people looking to marry, given that many of today’s young adults show a growing preference for partnering with someone who shares their politics.” Though… it does seem to make sense to marry someone who shares your core beliefs: