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1/ Social psychologists long ago proved something utterly terrifying

People will disregard WHAT THEY SEE WITH THEIR OWN EYES to conform to what other people say

In a classic 1951 experiment by Solomon Asch, people looked at a picture of three lines & were asked to choose which Image
2/ one was same length as a “target” line, which was right in front of them

The correct choice was OBVIOUS

But person after person gave the wrong answer, out loud, when others picked the wrong line

WHEN THE TRUTH WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEIR FACES

3/ Watch the video and see for yourself

This happened even when the truth was visibly obvious

If person after person will say something that is blatantly false to conform with total strangers, imagine what can happens when the truth is more ambiguous or complex, as with social,
4/ cultural, or political issues

And imagine if it’s not just random strangers in a psychology experiment, but people whose acceptance you really want

But we don't have to imagine, because it's happening all around us

Otherwise sane people are saying things right
5/ out loud that are batshit crazy

Given the social pressure to conform, people will literally say the truth is a lie and a lie is the truth, right is wrong and wrong is right, up is down and down is up

And huge numbers of people will just jump right on that bandwagon
6/ But here’s where it gets interesting

In the famous line experiment, people who gave the wrong answer fell into three groups

1️⃣Those who saw the truth and knowingly said something they didn’t believe, just to go along
2️⃣Those who saw the truth but thought the others must be
7/ right and they must be mistaken
3️⃣Those who, after hearing others say the wrong thing, COULD NO LONGER SEE what was in front of them, and literally saw the the longer line as short & the shorter line as long

Their actual ability to perceive reality had been compromised
8/ And of course there’s one more group, although it was not an option in this particular experiment

There are those who see reality correctly but REMAIN SILENT when people around them start saying things that are batshit crazy

Which group are YOU in?
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Jul 20
This is (one reason) why “psychotherapy” by AI chatbots cannot work. But it would take a lot of explaining to really unpack this
2/ I was going to leave it there but, clearly, I need to say more. We are mammals, and the product of eons of evolution. We are born with an attachment system and require emotional/physiological attunement of another human to develop/grow/thrive. We require attunement to
3/ experience secure attachment, and we require secure attachment to develop the capacity to self-regulate, and to learn new ways of thinking/behaving/responding more generally. This is what we’re after in meaningful psychotherapy. It requires activation of the attachment system,
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Jul 9
1/ The DSM disorders we typically treat in psychotherapy are *descriptions* of symptoms, not explanations for them. Until recently, DSM itself stated this clearly

I unpack the topic in this blog:
psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/psyc…

Image
/2 In fact, in the context of ongoing and skilled work in psychotherapy, it is possible (and necessary) to formulate and confirm/disconfirm hypotheses about underlying psychological causes. These hypotheses—or clinical case formulations—are necessarily specific to the individual
3/ patient, never generic & never knowable prior to engaging in the process of inquiry & exploration (which is the work of psychotherapy)

One serious adverse consequence of the DSM is that it often leads to a short circuiting of this process by giving both clinicians & patients
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Jul 9
“It is so much easier for [traumatized patients] to talk about what has been done to them—to tell a story of victimization and revenge—than to notice, feel, and put into words the reality of their internal experience”
—Bessel van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score
2/ I’ll add it's often fairly easy to tell who has benefited from meaningful psychotherapy and who has not. Those caught in what vdK calls the “story of victimization and revenge” have not. Those able to reflect on their experience in more complex and nuanced ways, in the context
3/ of a larger integrated narrative of the arc of their lives, have

It absolutely breaks my heart that we have “therapists” whose approach to trauma reinforces the former instead of helping patients work toward the latter

(Let the outpouring of Twitter hate begin)
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Jul 9
@DrGipps The DSM disorders we typically treat in psychotherapy are *descriptions* of symptoms, not explanations for them. Until recently, DSM itself stated this clearly

I unpack the topic in this blog:
psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/psyc…
@DrGipps /2 In fact, in the context of ongoing & skilled work in psychotherapy, it is possible (and necessary) to formulate and confirm/disconfirm hypotheses about underlying psychological causes. These hypotheses—or clinical case formulations—are necessarily specific to the individual
@DrGipps 3:/ patient, never generic and never knowable prior to engaging in the process of inquiry and exploration (which is the work of psychotherapy)

One serious adverse consequence of the DSM is that often short circuits this process, by giving clinicians & patients both the illusion
Read 6 tweets
Jun 29
1/ I see right-leaning accounts saying mental suffering is a weakness/character flaw

and left-leaning accounts saying mental illness doesn't exist, it’s all trauma inflicted by an inequitable and oppressive society

They think they’re different—but have the exact same mentality
2/ These superficially opposite camps both view mental suffering through the same judging, condemning, shaming, 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘨 lens

They differ only in where they want to point the self-righteous, moralizing, blaming, shaming finger—at the individual or at society
3/ But neither camp can transcend their self-righteous moralizing. Someone or something must be 𝘣𝘭𝘢𝘮𝘦𝘥

There’s no interest on either side in listening, hearing, understanding, or grappling with the profound complexity of mental suffering

There is no possibility of that,
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Jun 23
1/ We are the “authors” of all our thoughts & actions. We claim ownership of some of our thoughts and actions and disclaim ownership of others

When we claim ownership, we tend to use the word “I.” I did this. I said that

When we disclaim ownership, we tend to use the word “it”
2/ For example: I didn't mean it. The devil made me do it. It wasn’t me, it was the the alcohol. It wasn't me, that's not who I am. It just happened

Freud observed this & used exactly these words, “I” & “it,” to describe thoughts & actions that we claim & disclaim, respectively:
3/ “Das Is und Das Es.” I and it

The words were unfortunately mistranslated as ego & id, by a translator who thought he needed to make it sound more science-y. Unfortunate, because the original words were experience-near & intuitive to anyone. The simple starting observation of
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