i'll give some advice to some of my younger followers who are about to graduate college
dont fall for the meme you see on here of moving to a small town and finding a young wife. it's not going to happen, and your career opportunities will be limited
"you need to move to the city. that's where the women and jobs are"
unfortunately this is true. but when most people hear this they assume it means NYC, SF, Boston, LA etc
jobs might pay a bit more in those places, but cost of living will more than eat the difference, plus you
will be competing against powerful men for the women in those cities
but what if I told you there are lots of cities around the country with lower cost of living that still have good job opportunities and lots of attractive women