Thread by @sandwichspy

I think there's an unspoken reason why so many people are side-eyeing basketball these days in the light of Caloy's Olympic wins in gymnastics. For the longest time, basketball has really been symbolic of the Filipino macho, celebrated not just for the sports that it is... 1/9

... but also for showcasing a performative masculinity that many Filipino men ascribe to. As a child, I remember the grownup men around me drinking beer, and thumping their chests as they cheered for their favorite basketball teams on TV. 2/9

When I went to school, my male classmates were all the same. And I remember feeling left out, because basketball did not interest me, and I had no interest to play it. So automatically that made me "queer." Not wanting to play basketball was a silent mark people judged me by. 3/9

I actually remember, around the age of 11 or 12, making an effort to like basketball. I began watching the PBA on TV. I decided to choose my "favorite" team, Ginebra San Miguel. All in the effort to be accepted into this boisterous camaraderie of men I felt ostracized from... 4/9

I felt like an impostor. It just was not me. I pretended to be such a basketball "fan" for months and months, until I could not pretend anymore. I remember finally saying to myself, "Who cares if I'm not as manly as these men I know?" 5/9

There was also the fact that in high school, being forced to play basketball for P.E. was always a humiliating torture. I just could not dribble, I just could not shoot baskets. I felt so self-conscious whenever I had to play this darned game... 6/9

And then to hear all your classmates tittering around the court about you because how was I a "man" in a basketball-crazy country and not know how to play basketball? Baling bayota uy, klaro kaayo. They'd laugh. 7/9

And this is why I hated basketball when I was a kid. I don't hate it as much anymore as a grownup, but I do know that basketball as a social phenomenon in the Philippines has long been weaponized in a quiet gender warfare that marked so many as "unfit." 8/9

Which is why when I first saw the Brgy. Lo-oc gays the other year do "gay basketball," playing fantastically while donning tutus and other queer-affirming costumes, I felt so much joy. It felt like a corrective. 9/9