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I came back from holiday to this - my rapist has only been in prison for just over two years, and I’m already having to start thinking about parole proceedings. I’ve only just began the process of rebuilding my life and he could be out come Christmas… where is the justice? Image
We continually hear talk in this country about a “compassionate” and “progressive” justice system… but compassionate and progressive towards whom? It’s most definitely not the victims.
He was sentenced to 5 years for multiple counts of rape and for attempting to defeat the ends of justice (by destroying evidence and threatening others so they’d destroy evidence). His sentence should mean 5 years.
I’ve been quiet on here for a little while because honestly the toll this is taking on my mental health combined with the constant general abuse and nastiness I receive on this platform is incredibly hard to bear.
I always try to be positive and empowering, but it would be disingenuous to also not talk about the struggles. And right now, it’s really, really hard.

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Jul 25
My rapist was sentenced to 5 years in prison, yet he may only serve half. Other survivors have seen their rapists get community service. Our needs are ignored. Today @ScotSentencing launched a public consultation on this. It’s time for our voices to be heard.
We keep hearing talk of having a “progressive” justice system in Scotland, but how can it be progressive if we don’t hold men accountable for their actions and don’t allow survivors the space to heal?
Current sentencing is out of step with both public opinion and the needs of survivors. Custodial sentences are often far too low (when they’re actually handed out) and many offenders are eligible to serve only half or even a third of that. It’s unacceptable.
Read 6 tweets
Jul 11
Women are repeatedly chastised for not leaving abusive relationships, but what happens when we do? The horrifying murders of Carol, Hannah, and Louise Hunt seemingly at the hands of Louise’s ex boyfriend show just how far some men will go to maintain their control over us.
When I tried to leave my abusive ex he bombarded me with hateful messages, stalked me, and then began to threaten suicide to reel me back in. Another time, after finding out he’d been unfaithful he strangled me until I lost consciousness.
These men do not “look” like monsters, because they are not - they are men. They are men you work with, men you study with, men you’re friends with. We cannot pretend that male violence against women is a rarity - it happens far, far too often.
Read 4 tweets
Jul 8
It’s been two years since I waived my media anonymity following my rape case. I was sick of hearing about that “promising young man” and not THIS promising young woman. HE was the “talented athlete” whose medical career was ruined, I was just “victim”… I needed to reclaim me.
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I felt so powerless and degraded watching him being humanised with these lists of accolades, while I was simply the nameless body he violated. My hopes, my dreams… all irrelevant. My first class degree, my impressive athletics career… all meaningless.
I wanted to reclaim my power, I wanted to show I wasn’t ashamed, I wanted to break stigmas, and most importantly I wanted to make change.
Read 9 tweets
May 16
Last month my complaint against my rapist’s defence lawyer was upheld and he’d been found to have “abused his position”. Today, I learned of the penalty. He will be fined, ordered to pay me compensation, and issued with a “severe written censure”. Misogyny has consequences.
This has been an immensely hard-fought battle, and I’m so proud of myself for finding the strength to pursue this. I was devastated after all he subjected me to in court, but I knew he had to be held to account. Lorenzo Alonzi lost my rapist’s case, and he lost this too.
I do think however, that the consequences are not severe enough. The fine is £2,000 and the compensation payment is £1,000. While I’m pleased that there will be a material cost to him, and this will serve as a warning to others, the amounts are pitiful.
Read 6 tweets
Apr 10
I fought the law and I WON! After being subjected to a humiliating ordeal in court by my rapist’s defence lawyer, I started the arduous process of submitting a complaint. I had to study the law, compile it all myself, facing off against a team of lawyers… and it’s been upheld!
I left court feeling traumatised, shamed, and humiliated. I was accused in court of having various personality disorders with no evidential basis. I was told I made my rapist jealous. It was implied I was promiscuous.
Worst of all, after my rapist was found guilty, his lawyer implied he was falsely convicted and said it was an “injustice” that I’d graduated with a first and masters with distinction. He also said that my rapist had simply “fallen in love with the wrong person”.
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Nov 23, 2023
For too long rapists, including my rapist, have enrolled at universities without declaring their past. After campaigning on this tirelessly I’m delighted to announce that @uni_scot will now gather data on criminal convictions AND charges for such crimes from prospective students!
This is monumental news, and puts to bed concerns around GDPR that institutions have been hiding behind. Ensuring appropriate safeguarding is impossible if unis aren’t aware of risks. As the legal issues relate to UK law, this sets precedent for @UniversitiesUK to follow suit.
I’ve been working on this since I was raped while studying at the University of Glasgow, and my rapist then started studying at Edinburgh University while awaiting trial. Amidst all my pain, investigating university policy and campaigning for change became my outlet.
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