Last night we decided to do a very quiet and peaceful action. We ended up having tomato ketchup thrown all over us, drinks thrown at us, threatened by bar staff and the police called to arrest us. I wondered how such a quiet thing would go. Here is how…
The idea was to see reactions in a normal bar on truthful statements about the reality of sex versus the nefarious gender. We weren’t saying anything. We weren’t giving our views out loud. We just wondered what people would do if they looked at a quiet truth written on boards.
The first bar we sat at a table next to a middle aged man. We got a drink and sat chatting about stuff. We put 3 signs around us without saying anything. Some curious looks, some photos taken from a distance. Much as expected. Then a man came up to say he agreed with them.
The middle-aged man at the side of us got up and called us “disgusting” and “transphobes”. He was watching football. One sign is about fair sport for women. Another man came and chatted. He agreed too. But didn’t like me because of my action on Ched Evans in 2014. 🤷🏻♀️
It was all very reasonable and no bar staff seemed to care. We moved next door. Different crowd. A fella in a frock there and a confused woman feeling the non-binary feelz on the bar staff. We got a drink and sat under the big screen tv showing the football.
A few young men came up to say they agreed with us. One agreed about Sport but not the others which made him uncomfortable. He couldn’t say why. He was certainly thinking about why. This was our intention. To let people know it’s ok to say what you think is true.
The bar manager came over. No one at this point had voiced any objection. The man dressed as a woman had walked over and very close in a weird way, trying to intimidate I think but said nothing. The bar manager said we had to take the signs down as they were offensive.
A short time passed and not much was said but suddenly as we chatted and had almost forgotten the signs were there - a man ran up and covered the signs and the other two women with me in tomato ketchup. We jumped up in shock. He ran off.
I don’t know if it was the same man, I think it was, came back over as we sat trying to clean clothes a bit and recover ourselves. He threw a drink at us. And ran off again. At this point the police arrived. A group of women behind had been calling us bitches. It got loud.
The police asked us to go downstairs. They went to speak to the ones who had assaulted us. Clearly stories were invented on the spot. We were asked to leave by a manager who called us “disgusting bitches” even as my friend tried to clean her clothes.
Outside we were told that we were the aggressors. That we had thrown tomato ketchup. That we had thrown drinks. We were the ones covered in tomato ketchup and drinks. The woman covered in sauce clearly upset and trying to sort herself out in the street after an attack.
Eventually after refusing, very calmly to give my details as I’d done nothing wrong but also didn’t want to pursue action against the other party, who can be bothered really, we know this will happen again, I said if I’d done wrong they could arrest me arrest me.
They said I was being awkward - I said there were two choices since I wasn’t giving my details. Arrest me or let us walk away. They seemed unsure. We walked away.
A few silent signs telling a truth they can’t bear. That’s all it was.
Great evening. 🍅
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Will the political leaders stop saying women-only “spaces”? The issue is service provision for female survivors of male violence, fair competitive sport, sex-segregated prison accommodation, changing rooms and toilets which are safe for females to be undressed in away from males. We don’t demand to walk around in a man-free bubble, though sometimes that would be nice, we don’t want a nice garden or cafe. We want fairness and safety. It’s not a “space” it’s safe and fair institutional provision for female people and in a legal format made clear as to sex. Stop making us sound like we are all demanding the fainting couch back. @Keir_Starmer @RishiSunak
And for goodness sake @RishiSunak it’s a piece of legislation called Equality Act 2010. It is not the “equalities act” and women can’t believe you’re serious about it if you don’t know what it is you tiny-trousered plumb.
@RishiSunak Sorry I’m just watching the debate and getting cross. When Starmer is asked about women’s spaces he answers by talking about his professional past. The question was about women. Yes you were once DPP but now you’re being asked to clarify the Equality Act. Stop ducking
Him: Look I campaigned with her on the tree issue. I looked up to her. She inspired me. She was a hero.
Me: She IS a hero.
Him: well there are other things.
Me: what things?
Him: well I think …er… on some things she’s on the wrong side.
Me: what things?
Him: the trans issue.
“It’s complicated”.
Me : “It’s not. She was kicked out of her party and I was kicked out of @UKLabour for congratulating her on her selection. It’s not complicated. What is a woman?
What struck me most about KJK’s face as she was shuffled out of that baying mob was not just the fear, but her sudden knowledge of what male violence is up close. Many of us come to the feminist cause because we have experienced male violence. So when KJK talks of her fear
of falling to the floor and what would happen, it’s because many of us have been on that floor and we know what happens. That’s why we women, even those who have disagreed with her in the past, felt a surge of sympathy. No woman wants another woman to face that either from a mob
or an individual man. I put my hand to my mouth when I looked at her shocked and scared face because she is a woman, not an enemy, a woman being threatened by men. My fight is first and foremost against those men. The men who beat and rape and prostitute women.
This is disgusting. Facilitated by @SheffLibraries - there was no protest organised and I attended with and took notes as a writer. I’m not gloating. I was right at the back so not sure how good his eyes are. But wow at the intent to intimidate.
I am putting in a formal complaint to @SheffLibraries about how I was treated. I was quietly attending a talk open to the public. I am a Sheffield woman and you “guarded” and intimidated me for no reason. I posed no threat and all I did was take notes which the woman guarding
made sure she read every word she sat so close and I couldn’t take out my phone as she was checking that too. I only checked the time. She was very intense and made me very uncomfortable. I had tried to be pleasant and talk about the weather. As you would with any person.
I arrived to a fairly large protest. Two police were there and a number of door security. I asked the man on the door “what’s happening” his reply “I think they thought more was going to be going on than actually is”. Wasting police time? Should charge Labelle who
whipped up the frenzy himself by talking of “violent threats”. There were zero threats at all. I’d clearly said I wasn’t organising anything as children may be in attendance. These protesters would have been the ones frightening kids. It was unnecessary and cost taxpayers money