Thread by @SandwichNgJB

i have tried to keep my silence for the longest time but if they can display their betrayal and disrespect this loudly, then i guess i'll reciprocate that.

an exposing thread and open letter for my ex (@/jhocredible), her new partner, and their enabler friend group.

sinabi na nga kasing 'wag akong galitin dahil ilalabas ko talaga lahat lahat ng proof na meron ako.

i posted this not to take revenge (because if it was that, i would've done this long ago and hindi nila deserve ng time at energy ko more than this). i posted this to help other blooms/stans be aware sa gawain ng friend group na 'to.

trauma malala talaga sa mga taga-stan twt :)

so, for context, my ex (omi) and i, met here sa twt stan last 2017 pa but we never really interacted much with each other not until late April 2021. since then, we started to talk and we eventually got into a relationship on October 2021.

our relationship started from then on and lasted until November 2 of this year.

we broke up pa pala early February this year and got back together again by March 24, and WE NEVER BROKE UP AGAIN not until November happened.

last September, i went home sa luzon for a quick break. during my first uwi that month, i caught a conversation which proved na she cheated on me last April. i confronted her and i was so hopeful to fix things kaya i gave us a chance.

after that, we tried to fix things and eventually, umuwi pa ulit ako nung mid-September to attend her graduation.

during these times, we were okay. i can say na i saw her growth and that bumabawi naman talaga siya.

everything was okay and nag-celeb pa kami ng 3rd anniversary.

she went here on a trip from November 1 until November 6. she personally broke up with me during her 2nd day of stay here in Davao.

November 2 ng gabi, she talked to me and asked to break up because she said she wanted to focus on her review for her board exams.

when she offered the breakup, i did my best to understand her reason and where she was coming from kaya i agreed. i told her to just finish her trip here and then we'll break up when she gets back to luzon.

during the talk, sabi niya pa nalito siya bigla and that she felt bad.

so from November 1 to 6, we acted as if we were still together. we even went to celebrate our last monthsary with a dinner date. hinatid ko pa siya sa airport on the day of her flight back and we were still consistently talking even after she got back to luzon.

coming from a place of a broken heart and in so much vulnerability, i asked her to reconsider her decision, na baka this time kayanin naman na namin and all. and then, she said na sige she'll try to think about it nga raw gano'n.

in between the days na nagkakausap kami, ...

nagtatanong ako from time to time if she alr made her decision, kung saan na ba leaning yung decision niya. palagi niyang sagot is that she's half-hearted, na she's not yet ready to make a decision mga gano'n. sa side ko, that hurt kasi ang push-and-pull ng actions & words niya.

when we were talking, parang kami pa rin na but without the label. may mga hirit pa ng assurances, o mga hirit na after her boards baka p'wede pa gano'n. nung November 18, bigla siyang naging cold. biglang hindi na nagr-reply kaya i didn't bother her much din.

nung November 19, day na nag-attend siya ng GBV, sobrang minimal nalang talaga ng interactions namin and i was starting to feel off about it. wala siyang paramdam until the next day.

i hated the feeling na lulubog lilitaw siya and that i felt like i was just for convenience.

night of November 20, i messaged her asking if we can talk through call. she agreed and during the phone call, i told her na if she's not gonna make a decision, i'll make it for us.

i explained to her how i won't be able to heal from the trauma i have that she gave me ...

with her by my side. inexplain ko lahat sa kaniya, even opened up na i didn't like the push-and-pull feeling na she was giving me. grabe yung mixed signals for me gano'n. then nag-agree siya.

starting that night, we really cut our communication.

a few days to a week after, nakakita na ako ng mga landian nila dito sa twt. which caused me the worst anxiety attacks. actually even without it, i'd still get triggers which would cause me to shake, have weak knees, go numb, and others pa, with most attacks happening in public.

long story short, they kept interacting na rito sa stan. some were subtle flirting interactions, some naman were such loud flirting gano'n. kayo na bahala maghanap sa mga account nila kung paano sila naglalandian hahahahaha. actually nung early nov palang, grabe na interactions

niyan. tapos ang excuse sa akin kapag ino-open up ko, "humor lang ng magt-tropa 'yan".

eto sample. this was November 13.

sobrang dami pang kagaguhan niyan. nung nagkabalikan kami last March, sa mga kwento niya sa friends nung April, hindi raw kami nagkabalikan. tapos kahit raw nagmakaawa pa ako sa kaniya, hindi raw siya bumalik (kahit naging kami ulit at walang pagmamakaawang nangyari haha kapal)

oh eto additional at recently ko lang nalaman. nung September, nung nahuli ko siyang nagcheat last April, she never mentioned na nag-cheat din pala siya with Gab recently lang that time (mga between July-September ang timeline).

bigla niya ghinost si Gab nung Sept kasi pinost ..

niya ako sa IG story nung time ng graduation niya. nagulat nalang daw sila Gab nun na nagkabalikan daw pala kami (kahit hindi naman kami naghiwalay haha tangina diba).

eto pa. a few days before bbph event, namention niya na sa akin na magkikita raw sila ng friends niya after the event. so ako, happy ako for her kasi nak-kwento niya paminsan 'yang friend group nila gab, ep, alexis, etc. tapos the night of the event, sabi niya hindi raw tuloy.

sabi ko pa sa kaniya nun if mag-meet sila, ipakilala niya sa akin kasi hindi ko pa nam-meet/nakakausap/nakikita 'yang mga kaibigan niya na 'yan. tapos ang sabi nga niya, hindi nga raw natuloy na magkita sila kasi late na natapos yung event.

only for me to know just now na nagkita kita pala sila nun. :)) that pic was taken during the night of the billboard event. sobrang sinungaling ni omi, 'no? hahaha. sobrang tanga ko rin na nagpadala pa 'ko sa mga pagsisinungaling niyan.

nung december 25, kinonfront pa namin 'yan sa gc namin dahil nagalit na talaga ako sa interactions nila because it's so disrespectful. galing na nga sa agaw tapos pinagmamalaki pa? lol.

mga feeling green flag sa public pero mga cheater at red flag sa totoo lang.

after this, i just hope everyone gets enlightened about how fake those people are.

sa mga may jowa rn, partner check din kayo diyan :')) baka naga-i love you sa inyo 'yan pero may kinikita na palang iba without you knowing. ingat kayo. :)

to their friend group, i don't know if you guys know the whole and REAL story, but sana maka-realize kayo ng pagkakamali diyan sa page-enable sa mga 'yan. akala niyo lang siguro walang cheating o overlapping na nangyari, pero meron. ang lalakas niyo ipagmalaking ...

mga green flag kayo tapos nage-enable kayo ng mga ganiyan na gawain? hahahaha labo niyo.

to gab, lol hindi ko alam kung anong pagtrato binigay sa'yo niyan ni omi pero good luck nalang siguro sa inyo haha. nandiyan na 'yan eh, might as well panindigan niyo nalang. iyong iyo na 'yan.

to omi, i hope you know that i wrote this with so much hate and remorse towards you. it frustrates me to feel all these because i used to have a heart full of love for you. now, there's nothing but anger for what you did. i gave you all the chance and time to come clean but ...

you never did and even proceeded to gaslight me and make me believe all your bullshit. nahuli na kita one time about another girl, not knowing na the weeks before that meron pa palang isa, and you did not even mention it when i confronted you. you know how bad cheating and

betrayal can hurt but you still did it to me— for THREE FUCKING TIMES. i am not a bad person but i really hope karma and guilt attack you so much on random days to a point na hindi ka patutulugin ng konsesya mo gabi-gabi.