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Dec 31, 2024 18 tweets 6 min read Read on X
How to Approach Women … The BASICS

(But NOT What You Think)

1. Start by Getting Your Sh!t Together Image
Start by building yourself into a man women WANT to be approached by.

If you're Broke, Overweight, or have No goals, Forget about women and fix yourself first.

Women are hypergamous by nature. They’re drawn to men who are thriving, not surviving.

Build a life that attracts women effortlessly.
2. Develop Bulletproof Confidence

Confidence isn’t optional. It’s the foundation of attraction.

Women aren’t attracted to weakness. If you can’t believe in yourself, how can she believe in you?

Confidence comes from competence. Get good at something: your career, fitness, social skills, anything.

Start winning at life, and your energy will radiate that success.
3. Dress Like a Boss

Women judge you before you open your mouth. Your style tells her if you’re worth her time.

Dressing well isn’t about luxury, it’s about FIT, grooming, and looking sharp.

A man who dresses with purpose signals confidence, ambition, and self-respect.

Make looking good a HABIT, not a one-time effort.
4. Improve Your Social Game

If you only practice talking to women, you’ll always be nervous.

Talk to everyone; men, women, old, young. Build charisma and comfort in social settings.

The more socially skilled you are, the easier it becomes to approach women.

Women LOVE men who can hold their attention in a conversation.
5. Develop Interesting Hobbies

If your life is boring, you’ll have nothing to talk about.

Hobbies make you intriguing. They give you a life outside of chasing women.

Women love men who are passionate about something: music, sports, travel, fitness, anything.

When you’re interesting, she’ll WANT to be part of your world.
6. Always Have High Energy

Women are drawn to ENERGY. If you’re sluggish or low-vibe, they’ll move on.

High energy doesn’t mean being loud or obnoxious. It means being PRESENT, engaged, and passionate.

Sleep well, eat clean, and work out. A fit, energized man is naturally magnetic.
7. Approach Multiple Women

Rejection is part of the game. The more women you approach, the less it stings.

Abundance is key. Approaching only one woman makes you desperate.

Approaching multiple women builds social proof. Other women will notice, and it creates attraction.
TEXTING is the modern way women vett men.

No matter how good you are in person, if your texting game SUCKS you’ll never date her.

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8. Don’t Take Rejection Personally

Rejection isn’t about YOU; it’s about HER. Maybe she’s having a bad day. Maybe she’s taken.

Every "no" gets you closer to a "yes." Learn from each interaction and improve.

Confidence is built in the FIRE of rejection.
9. Make Strong Eye Contact

Eye contact is the key to initiating attraction with women.

Don’t stare her down, but don’t look away like a nervous boy.

Hold her gaze and OWN the moment.

Women can decide in seconds if they’re attracted to you based on how you look at them.
10. Don't Use Pickup Lines

Forget cheesy pickup lines. Say what you mean.

“Hi, I noticed you, and I wanted to meet you. What's your name?”

Simple, confident, and effective.

Women respect men who are clear about their intentions but not desperate.
11. Learn to Tease and Banter

Women love men who can make them laugh AND challenge them.

Tease her playfully, but never cross the line into being rude.

Banter builds sexual tension. It’s flirting with words. Master this skill, and you’ll stand out from 90% of men.
12. Always Leave Her Wanting More

Don’t overstay your welcome. Keep your interaction short and leave on a high note.

A mysterious man is irresistible. She’ll think about you when you’re not around.

Get her number, and LEAVE. Make her curious about who you are.
13. Be Polarizing—Not Safe

Trying to be “nice” and agreeable will make you forgettable.

Women want a man who has opinions, takes risks, and stands for something.
14. Stay in Control of Your Frame

Never let a woman dictate the energy or flow of the interaction.

You’re the leader; she follows. If she challenges you, handle it with calm confidence.

Women respect men who are unflappable.
15. Repeat the Process Until It’s Second Nature

Approaching women isn’t about getting lucky. It’s a skill.

The more you do it, the better you’ll get. Practice leads to mastery.

Eventually, you’ll stop thinking about it and start doing it effortlessly.
If you want to become a master at texting women

And know how to make them horny for you through text messages, then this guide is for you. 👇
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1. The Power of Composure

When she tests your patience, throws attitude, or challenges you, your biggest weapon is emotional self-control.

Why?

Women thrive on emotional responses. When you react, you feed her power.

Staying calm, collected, and unshaken forces her to second-guess herself.

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Your silence speaks volumes:

It says, “I’m above this.”

It tells her that her drama can’t control you.

The man who can remain unshaken becomes the man she respects.
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Chasing her attention only pushes her away. Why?

It screams insecurity and neediness.

Women are wired to lose respect for men who prioritize them over everything else.

Instead:

Pull back. Focus on YOURSELF.

Be the man who’s busy building his empire, not the one begging for scraps of her time.

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You’ll always be her backup plan. Her second choice. Her emotional punching bag.

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Fix: Prioritize your purpose. Women respect and desire men who put their goals before them. She’s an addition to your life, not the center of it.
2. You fall in love first.

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1. Emojis Are Training Wheels, Use Them Sparingly. Image
Too many emojis make you look immature. Too few make you seem cold. Keep it balanced.

A confident man doesn’t NEED emojis to express himself, but a well-placed 😉 or 😏 can add flavor.

Example:

Her: “You’re trouble.”
You: “You have no idea. 😏”

Never let emojis replace your words. Let your wit and confidence do the heavy lifting.
2. Don’t Text Her Too Often.

You’re NOT her pen pal. Stop acting like one.

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If she always knows where you are, what you’re doing, and what you’re thinking, there’s no challenge. Women are drawn to mystery.

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1. Women Live in Dual Realities: The Alpha vs. Beta Mindset Image
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Alpha Reality: She craves the alpha man when her emotions are high (adventure), lust, danger, and status.

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Beta Reality: She turns to the beta man when her emotions are low (security), resources, and stability. He’s her safety net, not her fantasy.

A woman doesn’t consciously separate these men. Her biology does.

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What she says she wants ≠ what she actually responds to.

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She may deny caring about looks, but a strong jawline triggers her primal instincts.

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Ignore what she says and give her what she respond to.
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1. Pouring Out Your Feelings. Image
Never confess your emotions over text.

“Hey, I just wanted to tell you how much I like you…”
This KILLS attraction.

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2. Sharing Negative Emotions.

“I’ve been feeling down lately…”
“I hate my job…”

Women are attracted to strength.

Emotional dumping drains her attraction.

Give a hint about your victories, not share your problems.
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