I know you're going to tell me I'm crazy, but she wants you to be busy and ignore her.
It's a fact of life. Obviously, a woman isn't going to say this because it sounds crazy, but women aren't aware that this is really what they want.
She'll tell you she wants attention and needs it, but deep down, that's not what she really wants.
For a woman to be attracted to you, she has to see you as someone important, which usually means you don't have much time because you've got a lot to do.
If you're always after her, showing her a lot of attention, she'll think you don't have much value and so won't like you very much.
But if you show her that you're busy, by saying things like "I'll call you later" or "I'll call you tonight when I get a chance", but don't text her all day, that's how you increase your value. She'll think you're valuable.
I'm telling you, if you ignore her a little bit, if you miss a call or don't text her all day, she'll think, "Okay, he's busy, he's got something to do." I hope you're really busy, have things to do and aren't playing games.
But yeah, I don't know, I work a lot, I don't have time to be on my phone all day. As a man, if you're busy, if you're on your goal and getting things done, you shouldn't be able to text all day or be on your phone all day either.
If you put a girl aside and focus on your goals, you won't look needy. You'll look like a man of great worth. You won't be thirsty, and to her, that will be more valuable.
I know it sounds crazy because you're thinking, "If I show her all this attention, she should be happy." No, because it shows that you've got too much time on your hands and you're thirsty for her.
You have to ignore her a little. Again, women will never admit it.
2. Have female friends
She wants you to have friends - not other women you're dating, but then again, she won't tell you that.
But she subconsciously likes the fact that other women gravitate to you, because it shows that you're desirable, but that she's got you.
That really attracts women. Obviously, she may be a little jealous, but at this stage, you're showing her that you have other options.
Especially if your friends are pretty, it shows her that pretty women are attracted to you, and this will create a little competition inside her.
It'll keep her on her toes, making sure she's always pretty and doing what you say she should do, just so you'll choose her over and over again instead of those other girls.
In her mind, the fact that she thinks it's a competition makes her see you as the prize.
Because she has you right now, she's winning, and that makes her feel good. She feels your value is high.
Women will never admit it, but they're attracted to you because you're surrounded by beautiful women.
If you want to be successful with women, master these 8 ways to evoke emotions:
1. Get other women
Women are innately jealous of each other. Observe how a ‘7’ looks at a ‘9’. She looks at her with disgust, but truthfully, she’s looking at her like that because she’s jealous that she doesn’t look as ‘pretty’ as her.
Use this aspect of female nature to your advantage, surround yourself with good looking women and other women will be drawn towards you.
Never forget: Women desire what other women have. When you’re around women, women want you. When you’re single, women couldn’t care less about you.
2. Be mysterious
Law 4 in the 48 laws of power: Always say less than necessary.
Mysterious men are like drug to a woman. Become one and you’ll have her attached for life.
Never reveal everything about yourself to a woman. Picture yourself as a book. Women crave a book with empty pages everywhere, they want to work out and put the pieces of the book together. The harder it is to put the pieces together, the more emotions that are evoked.
There’s no fun for a woman when they know exactly how the book pans out, they love a mystery, so be that mystery.
The woman should 30 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.
A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast.
It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years.
2) She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father
No step-mommies and step-daddies.
Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy.
A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies.
You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with divorce have too much baggage, use sluttery as a way to get attention from daddy, and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.