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Here’s a brief thread 🧵on our latest paper: “Sexual partner number and distribution over time affect long-term partner evaluation: evidence from 11 countries across 5 continents” out now in Scientific Reports () [1/16]nature.com/articles/s4159…
Sexual history is a hot topic online. Often ‘body count’ is discussed very judgmentally – debasing others because their number is “too high” or “too low”. In manosphere-associated podcasts, it’s often used to shame women, giving the impression of a sexual double standard. [2/16]
Some might be tempted to dismiss sexual history discourse as an arbitrary preference. However, there’s no escaping the fact that concerns and gossip about sexual history seem to be found in every language and in every culture. [3/16]
Perhaps, instead, considering a mate’s sexual history is a part of our evolved mating psychology. One designed to help us minimise the risks associated with sex and relationships – such as STDs, investing in a partner who may stray, or butting heads with competitors. [4/16] Image
In 2016, @SteveStuWill and I found that people in the UK were sensitive to past partner number in prospective long-term mates. They were most interested in someone with a bit of a past (say 2-3 partners) but not too much. [5/16]
tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.108…Image
Importantly, we found little evidence of a sexual double standard. Men and women had similar “pickiness patterns” – challenging the idea that people apply higher standards to women than men. [6/16] Image
Since publishing that study, 2 things compelled me to revisit the topic. First, our original study was just the UK. We don’t know if the effects are generalisable or a “British thing”. Second, a single number ignores a source of nuance – when did those encounters happen? [7/16]
If you had 2 people to choose from for a date, both with 4 past sexual partners. For A, they were evenly spaced out across 5 years. For B, all were met within the last 6 months. Who would you pick? Context clearly matters even in a thought experiment. [8/16]
So that’s what we set out to do. A new study testing not just past partner number, but how distribution over time affected evaluation as a long-term mate. Participants rated the desirability of a partner based on a pictorial representation of their sexual history. [9/16]
Using line figures we tested the effect of someone having 4, 12, or 36 past partners each across 15 distributions ranging from “they all happened very recently” to "equally spaced out over time” to “they were bunched together, but a long time ago”. [10/16] Image
That is, the figures showed participants whether someone was decreasing or increasing their encounters with new sexual partners over time.

To examine cultural differences, we tested >5k participants in 11 countries from Australia to Brazil. Super interesting results! [11/16]
First, we replicated the past partner number effect. In every country, 12 partners were less desirable than 4, and 36 less than 12.

Second, we found greater interest in those with a decreased frequency of new partners over time. Plus, an interaction – number effects were smaller when frequency decreased. [12/16]Image
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So “when” adds more information than simply “how many?” This holds true in every country sampled. Of course, distribution effects had limits – at no distribution was 36 partners as desirable 4. But the difference narrowed. There were also cool curvilinear effects here. [13/16]
Importantly, we found no real evidence of a sexual double standard. Where there were sex differences, they were small and in inconsistent between cultures. [14/16]
Together, the results challenge to the idea that women are held to different standards than men. They also show that people make holistic judgements about sexual history when evaluating a mate, offering a clear counterpoint to the labelling common in manosphere rhetoric. [15/16]
You can find the paper, fully open access here: . Thank you to my wonderful (and patient) collaborators including @CostelloWilliam @SteveStuWill @LeifKennair @DrDaniS @jarkaVarella @SexyIsntSexist @varella_marco @Marta7Kowal [16/16]nature.com/articles/s4159…
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More from @DrThomasAG

Apr 23
The Times, Daily Mail, and others recently covered my views on social skills training for incels. Unsurprisingly, the headlines were clickbaity—some behind paywalls—giving a misleading impression of my position. So here’s a more accurate outline.
[1/17]thetimes.com/article/incels…
First things first: the goal of my research (w/ collaborators like @CostelloWilliam) is to better understand incels, a hard-to-reach group, with the aim of reducing the potential for harm. [2/17]
By harm, I mean both the risk of misogyny or (very rare) acts of violence, and the severe self-directed harm many incels experience. Around 20% report daily thoughts of self-harm.
[3/17]osf.io/preprints/osf/…
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Jun 28, 2024
The debate around evolutionary psychology and its ideological misuse is intensifying with recent threads by @dconroybeam @sentientist (+@primalpoly comments) @EdHagen4 and @CostelloWilliam. And it’s getting messy. Massive 🧵 incoming... (1/15)
It's time to weigh in with my two British pennies. I actually like all parties involved, so I’m not going to talk about people. Instead, I want to focus on how our findings can be misconstrued, misrepresented, or misused, and what we (and the readers of our work) might be able to do about it.
As many of you know, I’m also a therapist and well versed in talking to clients about distorted thinking (aka thinking errors or cognitive distortions). I see a lot it in manosphere communities (and other sub-cultures like female dating strategy). So maybe it’s worth considering how our work can feed into these ways of thinking.
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Aug 15, 2023
Longest🧵ever! (1/25)

Cognitive distortions are patterns of irrational thinking that can cause distorted views of reality and negative emotions.

I noticed them a lot in singles with intense and prolonged feelings of discomfort about their singlehood (i.e., dysphoric singlehood)
Cognitive distortions are the “bread and butter” of CBT therapists.

Helping clients to analyse and rework their hard, simple, biased thoughts into softer, nuanced, realistic ones is what makes CBT one of the best forms of therapy for depression and anxiety.
It’s not easy to do, particularly if a client is feeling hopeless, but it can be done by paying close attention to counter-evidence, taking baby steps, and using the proper professional support.

(More about dysphoric singlehood here! )tinyurl.com/5n8wf3tz
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