When it comes to marriage,
You’re not just marrying a woman —
You’re marrying her mindset, her habits, her character behind closed doors.
Too many brothers rush into marriage for beauty and vibes...
Only to regret what they ignored.🧵
You’re not just marrying a woman —
You’re marrying her mindset, her habits, her character behind closed doors.
Too many brothers rush into marriage for beauty and vibes...
Only to regret what they ignored.🧵
Here are 6 red flags in a woman you should NEVER overlook before marriage:
1️⃣ She’s emotionally impulsive.
Every disagreement becomes a breakdown.
You’re not marrying peace — you’re marrying drama.
2️⃣ She texts and jokes with non-mahrams.
If she sees nothing wrong with casual🧵
1️⃣ She’s emotionally impulsive.
Every disagreement becomes a breakdown.
You’re not marrying peace — you’re marrying drama.
2️⃣ She texts and jokes with non-mahrams.
If she sees nothing wrong with casual🧵
messages and late-night convos with other men —
She’s not ready for amanah.
3️⃣ She’s obsessed with “independence.”
Wants a husband, but hates submission.
Talks about “soft life,” but avoids responsibility.
That’s not partnership — that’s delusion. 🧵
She’s not ready for amanah.
3️⃣ She’s obsessed with “independence.”
Wants a husband, but hates submission.
Talks about “soft life,” but avoids responsibility.
That’s not partnership — that’s delusion. 🧵
4️⃣ She makes you feel guilty for being a man.
If your leadership is seen as “control”, your boundaries as “insecurity”, and your deen as “patriarchy” —
Run.
5️⃣ She has no shame on social media.
Filters, poses, thirst-traps in the name of “confidence”?🧵
If your leadership is seen as “control”, your boundaries as “insecurity”, and your deen as “patriarchy” —
Run.
5️⃣ She has no shame on social media.
Filters, poses, thirst-traps in the name of “confidence”?🧵
If she needs online male attention, marriage won’t fix that.
6️⃣ She treats Islam like a pick-and-choose buffet.
Selective about deen.
Chooses ayahs that benefit her and ignores the rest.
That’s not submission to Allah — that’s ego in disguise.🧵
6️⃣ She treats Islam like a pick-and-choose buffet.
Selective about deen.
Chooses ayahs that benefit her and ignores the rest.
That’s not submission to Allah — that’s ego in disguise.🧵
📖 Prophetic Wisdom:
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Choose the religious woman, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”
— Sahih Bukhari, 5090
💎 A righteous wife isn’t perfect —
But she’ll never make you choose between your peace and your principles.🧵
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Choose the religious woman, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”
— Sahih Bukhari, 5090
💎 A righteous wife isn’t perfect —
But she’ll never make you choose between your peace and your principles.🧵
And a woman who respects your Islamic masculinity will never try to compete with it.
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