1. Look into people's eyes no matter who they are.
Your eyes are your strongest tool for silently commanding respect.
When you look someone in the eyes and hold that gaze, it shows you are unafraid, confident, and in control.
Avoid darting your eyes—it signals insecurity. Whether you’re speaking, listening, or just present, maintain direct eye contact. It’s not about intimidation; it’s about establishing dominance and trust simultaneously.
Few people realize the unspoken power this simple act holds. Most will look away first when challenged—don’t let that be you.
2. Respond with control, not emotion
Emotional reactions reveal your lack of self-control. When someone speaks to you—whether it’s a compliment, an insult, or a challenge—take a moment before responding.
That pause isn’t hesitation; it’s calculated. It gives you time to think and respond with precision and calmness. A cold, brief reply exudes confidence and keeps people guessing about your thoughts.
Remember: silence is often more powerful than a rushed reaction. Your composure makes you stand out in a world of impulsive talkers.