Throughout their lifetime, men are plagued with substantially higher sexual desire than women.
Sexual desire is a fundamental component of human relationships. Its patterns and predictors vary significantly across demographic groups, but the details of these variations have not been fully and reliably documented yet.
Our large study (N = 67,334) considered the individual and interactive roles of several demographic factors in sexual desire, including age, gender, sexual orientation, relationship status, number of children, recent childbirth, educational attainment, and occupation.
Men reported substantially higher desire than women, a difference that persisted across most ages and demographic groups. This aligns with longstanding evidence suggesting that men exhibit higher levels of sexual desire. Biological factors, such as testosterone levels, and sociocultural norms that promote greater sexual agency in men, likely contribute to these differences.
However, our observed effect size exceeded the medium-to-large effect sizes documented in previous meta-analyse. This could be due to the high reliability of our measure, and our biobank participants providing high-quality data because they got personal feedback on their survey results. This could also be due to many previous studies focusing on narrower age groups where gender differences are somewhat smaller.
Yet, a particularly notable finding is just how substantially higher men’s sexual desire was compared to women’s throughout most of the adult life span. While prior research has consistently shown that men report greater levels of sexual desire than women, our findings underscore the magnitude of this difference at different ages. Even the peak of average woman’s sexual desire at ages around 20 to 30 remains lower than men’s average levels across much of adulthood. It is only after the age of 60 + that men’s declining sexual desire falls below the highest levels ever reported by women.
Also, our findings suggest that men’s sexual desire is not only higher on average but also tends to remain more stable across the lifespan compared to women’s. By contrast, women’s average sexual desire was more variable, possibly influenced by reproductive cycles, hormonal fluctuations, and sociocultural factors that shape desire expression across different life stages.
My favorite culture from antiquity, the enchanting Minoans, famous for their extraordinary stylishness and aesthetic sensibility, already had a thing for flowers, like in that illustrious "spring" fresco.
Minoan saffron gatherer, c.1800-1700 BC. The female dress is eons ahead of its time.