The 12 BIGGEST Mistakes In Dating:
1. Falling in love
1. Falling in love
1. Falling in love too fast
You start imagining a future with a girl who barely knows you yet.
That turns into pressure, overthinking, and giving way too much energy before she’s earned it.
Slow down, bro.
You start imagining a future with a girl who barely knows you yet.
That turns into pressure, overthinking, and giving way too much energy before she’s earned it.
Slow down, bro.
2. Thinking she’s “the one” after one good date
You get attached to potential instead of reality.
Women feel when you make them the center of your world too early — and that kills attraction instantly.
Let things build naturally.
You get attached to potential instead of reality.
Women feel when you make them the center of your world too early — and that kills attraction instantly.
Let things build naturally.
3. Ignoring her lack of effort
You pretend the dry replies “don’t matter,” but they do.
If you’re the only one carrying the connection, she’s not into you — you’re just convenient.
Match her energy.
You pretend the dry replies “don’t matter,” but they do.
If you’re the only one carrying the connection, she’s not into you — you’re just convenient.
Match her energy.
4. Trying too hard to impress her
You talk too much, brag too much, or overshare to seem interesting.
She doesn’t fall for perfection — she falls for vibe, energy, presence, and groundedness.
Be real, not performative.
You talk too much, brag too much, or overshare to seem interesting.
She doesn’t fall for perfection — she falls for vibe, energy, presence, and groundedness.
Be real, not performative.
5. Being scared to show desire
Guys try to hide their attraction so they don’t look “thirsty.”
But women hate guys who act like they don’t care — they like men who make their interest obvious in a calm way.
Desire isn’t weakness.
Guys try to hide their attraction so they don’t look “thirsty.”
But women hate guys who act like they don’t care — they like men who make their interest obvious in a calm way.
Desire isn’t weakness.
Most guys mess up the “turning her on” part.
They rely on looks, charm, or hope she’s in the mood… then freeze when she’s not reacting.
They rely on looks, charm, or hope she’s in the mood… then freeze when she’s not reacting.
If you want her to get wet FAST, crave you, and actually initiate s3x…
You need to learn how to turn her on mentally, not physically.
You need to learn how to turn her on mentally, not physically.
That’s exactly what The STORY Method does.
It’s the easiest way to make her obsessed with you in bed.
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It’s the easiest way to make her obsessed with you in bed.
Check it out here 👇
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6. Rushing physical escalation
You’re scared she’ll lose interest, so you try to force the moment.
That makes things awkward because women need mental arousal before physical arousal.
Stop rushing.
You’re scared she’ll lose interest, so you try to force the moment.
That makes things awkward because women need mental arousal before physical arousal.
Stop rushing.
7. Treating her like a friend
Acting too nice, too soft, too friendly — with zero tension.
She stops seeing you as a man and starts seeing you as “safe but boring.”
Flirt more, hesitate less.
Acting too nice, too soft, too friendly — with zero tension.
She stops seeing you as a man and starts seeing you as “safe but boring.”
Flirt more, hesitate less.
8. Taking her dryness personally
Sometimes she’s tired, busy, or just in her own world.
Instead of panicking, stay calm and grounded — that’s what flips her energy back.
Your emotional control matters most.
Sometimes she’s tired, busy, or just in her own world.
Instead of panicking, stay calm and grounded — that’s what flips her energy back.
Your emotional control matters most.
9. Thinking performance is everything
Men stress about lasting long, size, angles, positions…
But women get turned on in the mind first, not from penetration alone.
Mental stimulation > physical.
Men stress about lasting long, size, angles, positions…
But women get turned on in the mind first, not from penetration alone.
Mental stimulation > physical.
If you want her to be dripping, shaking, begging, and unable to stop thinking about you…
The STORY Method teaches you exactly how to activate that side of her.
Two stories you read to her → she gets insanely turned on → you stop worrying about lasting long because she’s already craving you.
Two stories you read to her → she gets insanely turned on → you stop worrying about lasting long because she’s already craving you.
It fixes:
• performance anxiety
• her lack of arousal
• dead bedrooms
• “she never initiates”
• “she never c3ms”
• performance anxiety
• her lack of arousal
• dead bedrooms
• “she never initiates”
• “she never c3ms”
10. Dating without standards
You accept flakiness, bad effort, dry energy, disrespect.
When you tolerate low effort, you become low value in her eyes.
Hold your frame.
You accept flakiness, bad effort, dry energy, disrespect.
When you tolerate low effort, you become low value in her eyes.
Hold your frame.
11. Chasing after rejection
Once she shows she’s not interested, stop.
No amount of texts, calls, or effort will change how she feels.
Walk away with dignity.
Once she shows she’s not interested, stop.
No amount of texts, calls, or effort will change how she feels.
Walk away with dignity.
12. Expecting her to lead
Women don’t want to carry the connection.
Take initiative, make plans, be decisive — it’s attractive and calming for her.
Lead softly.
Women don’t want to carry the connection.
Take initiative, make plans, be decisive — it’s attractive and calming for her.
Lead softly.
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